Having a moral delima here.

Been "dating" a girl relatively exclusively for about 1 year now. From the very begining, I set the expectation that I did not want to be exclusive.

Something like: "I've had some issues in the past, getting out of a very long term relationship. I'd like to date around and figure out what I like/want in a girl. Obviously I understand if you do the same"

Problem is, neither of us have really done it in a year. Yet, both our facebook statuses say single.

Now I have a date tonight...and I feel guilty about it. I really like the current girl, but frankly, I think I can do better. I don't have the passion for her...

But I like spending time with her and we get along well!

Is it wrong to want to keep hanging out with her while looking for something better? Should I talk to her again and let her know specifically that I'm going on a date or is that just not her business?

I'm wrestling with the whole "make sure I leave her better than when I found her..."...am I violating this?

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Who pays for the date?

Here's a good question: If you mention the date the next time you see her, do you expect her to get upset? I mean, does she expect you to be monogamous (based on your actions)?

I would mention the date in passing, without going into details (unless something comical happens during the date). If you want to sub-communicate that she should be seeing other people, then just gradually cut down on how often you make plans with the girl (i.e. only see her once a week). Make yourself more unavailable.

-Wolf

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