I have been seeing this really eccentric HB9 for a year and just became bf/gf.

She has many orbiters who she doesn't respect, and I never show I am jealous. But I was wondering:

-If she gives them wet willies or wedgies where she basically touches their butt in front of me, should I call her out on this? She does it to me too and was doing this well before we were even serious

-If she takes a guy's number from her class (working on a project or just a friend), her work (invited her to a party but then started asking her out), ect. should I just show this does not bother me? I have done this in the past. She gets their number, tells me, then proceeds to ignore them if they ask her to hang out or she asks me to come. This cycle repeats constantly (new guy, eventually he tries to angle his way to a date with her, she ignores, he keeps texting, ect)

I can't really call her out on it can I? When I do the same thing she gets very jealous, which I like, but I don't do it often because I don't want a game of one upsmanship

Should I just be alpha and let her take these numbers or should I tell her to say she has a boyfriend if she keeps complaining about all these guys who ask for her number? She either says she gives it out to be nice OR she doesn't know what to do/say.

But comon man! I mean we fuck all the time, I know her family/friends, she is very jealous of other girls, ect.


Attention whore...What I don't get is, why does she keep taking the numbers when she knows that even if they don't initially seem to want to get in her pants, 9/10 times it turns out that way?

A girls perspective is different from a mans. Our worlds are different. Girls really do believe in "guy friends" but we know better. I would tread lightly on this. Maybe a more experienced player who has been in a successful relationship will be able to help.

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Not a big deal IMO. If she is in class or work and has to talk to a guy and he asks for her number for a project, even if she knows he may start hitting on her it would be rude/weird/socially wrong to tell him no or to mention a bf. Once she ignores when he starts showing interest youre good.

Well, it might not always be for a project, it might just be when talking

bump

went out the other night with another couple and my girl and the other girl's bf did a wet willie, but they have known each other for like 2 years and she has said in the past how much of a wimp he was

still though, she does do this kind of flirting in front of me with other guys. I just played it cool and talked to everyone else

I'd imagine if she is doing it on purpose to make you jealous, and if you dont react to it, she will start asking you if you're very into her or not.

sounds like she is 18 years old.