Neediness
Do you know why women like the “bad guys”? Because they are the opposite of being needy. They don’t care about the girl. They might not answer her phone calls. They might come 50 minutes late for a date.
If you think about it for a second, how can a man be completely in love with a woman that you've just known for 3 months? And even though you dated and screwed her quite a few times, you hardly even know her.
That’s exactly what women think about needy men. “He doesn't even know me… Why does he call me so much? He must be some loser”.

Calling a girl again and again, leaving her messages, sending flowers, telling her that they can’t sleep without seeing her. This is completely insane! But many men still do this.

Showing neediness only makes women like you less. So if a girl starts losing interest in you, behaving needy is not the solution.


The reason why girls hate guys that are needy is because girls are attracted to MEN. Being needy is a characteristic of a child not a man. A Guy who acts like a child (needy) “is asking" a girl to treat you like a mother and girls hate that.

Women want a man that can lead them into wonderful experiences. Women want a man that can make them feel beautiful, sexy, fun, safe, excitement, desire, attraction, all at the same time, regardless of age, income, or looks. A woman has to surrender to you in order for these things to happen. How do you expect her to do this if you are the one acting needy?

How do you make her feel all these amazing emotions if you're the needy one? A real man has to be a leader. Then women will follow you.

When YOU are a leader then the needy ones will come to you. So when a woman needs love and intimacy she will not only like and want you, she will have to stand in a long line.
Women want a strong man who is confident and independent.


Because being needy is emotionally draining and all consuming. Everyone needs alone time.

For the same reason why guys don’t like girls that are too needy... why would you want to emotionally take care of a grown person who is completely capable of taking care of them?