I'll be very short this time.
When you reach the point where gf who is usually introverted or quiet about potential problems, just changes her behaviour gradually, is it any good to just directly investigate with questions, or that could be DLV (in long term relationship)?
Because she just goes with her flow, when she feels like being affectionate, she is, when she feels changing long kept pattern into something new, she just does it. For certain specific day she would change something without questioning. Whenever we meet and spend some time, its like she needs to compensate more afterwards by capturing some kind of space for herself these last weeks. I also noticed she doesn't function well under any kind of pressure, be it in education obligations or otherwise. And doesn't share negative feelings with me.

Should you sometimes just try to use direct communication about stuff you think is affecting the relationship, or keep silent if she keeps silent in that field?

Funny thing is most girls had the same problem with me, I can change my mood and dont share negative things about me. then they bother me even more and that can lead into an argument.

I guess a good advice is really give her some free time, stop try to give her all the affection and put that chat-string theory into work.

Remember, a chat will not chase a dead string.

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Is she Bipolar or have any other emotional issues?

With girls that don't like to talk about what's going on or communicate why they act distant or want space, you kinda have to do your best to figure it out. Depending on the degree she's doing it depends on if it's serious or not. If she pulls away often and for extended periods of time, sit her down and talk with her, tell her you notice these things and because you value the relationship you need her to tell you what is going on.

If it's just her personality and she likes having space because she's introverted or busy in life, then just continue as normal and see if it changes or gets better.

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