I'm wondering if its either certain type of guys that make women fall head over heals for them, or is it that theres a special person for you out there. Someone with the qualities that fulfills you...

Also do we fall in love with people who are like us in lots of way, or people that are different from us who fulfill those qualities that we lack?

Admins should have added a new section to the forum - "Fall in love reports"
I got one strory to share for example.

This is for all girls ... if you can give them a wide range of emotions ... they will be addicted to you like crack.
- You have to be a guy who can give them drama (aka: wide range of emotions).
- Basically, a guy who is 100% expressing how he feels, his thoughts, and his actions are align to them.
- You have to let her experience negative and positive emotions. The more contrast these emotions are the more addicted she will be. For example ... be the romantic guy then be the ass hole guy. For example, have her cook thanks giving dinner and then don't show up for dinner.... ku ku ku ... or go see other girls and have her pick you up ... ku ku ku
* But, you don't have to be an asshole for her to experience negative emotions. You can say negative things not to her but maybe stuff you hate or challenge stuff that you don't like. For example, you can bust her balls for smoking. You can express how you hate a specific sports team.

If you want to achieve this ... Remember this:
1. Compliment what you like.
2. Challenge what you hate.
3. Acknowledge what is cool.
4. Acknowledge what is shit.

- If you are a nice guy ... you are predictable ... aka providing continuous positive energy.
- If you are constantly being an asshole ... you are predictable ... aka providing continuous negative energy.
* Therefore, provide both positive and negative energy into your interactions. Producing this unpredictability into your interactions.

But, when you do the list I just showed show above, you will become more of an honest person ... because you will not be afraid to say what you want and how you feel.

***Side note for JUSTIFYING being an asshole. Being an ass hole is actually being sincere to her because you are providing her with a wide range of emotions ^_^ and girls love a wide range of emotions.

Three words: Make her horny.

The science behind that statement is all here: how-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-y ... 36689.html

Spike up her sex drive towards you and you're good.

The way through a woman's heart is through her pussy. Never forget this and you'll be the best lover she'll ever have in her lifetime.

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Please her in bed and hug plus touch her after. The more orgasm you give to a woman the more she gets in love over time. Keep in mind you must be seen as a potential mate in the future.

I'm sure all the drama etc. keeps a long term relationship fresh, but if you're talking about the actual falling in love part its mostly very physical / sexual. If you can be rough with her sexually and make her cum, you're halfway towards making her fall in love with you. I like fucking the shit out of a new girl and staring into her eyes after she's cum. Be careful though, making someone fall in love with you is a double-edged sword. If you dont feel the same, you may get her too emotionally invested in you, which is hard work to maintain.

Gary Chapman wrote a book on Love Languages. It's Christian oriented, but a lot of it makes good sense.

I did a lot of research on this type of thing after my marriage went bananas. I didn't want to get divorced and regret making the wrong decision.

After all my research, MHO is that anyone can have a good relationship with anyone, provided BOTH parties want to be in the relationship.

That said, I think it's easier to sustain the love and positive experiences when 2 people are appropriately matched. The OP question sniffs around asking if opposites attract or if people are better off being alike. The answer to that is that it depends. Helen Fisher did some really good research on this subject and wrote a book called Why Him, Why Her.

I agree with most of what is posted above. With one exception, putting drama into a relationship works with Freaks, and with girls. Women, the kind that are mature, generally will look at a guy who fucks them good and pulls that shit and says, I'm not putting up with this shit. Generally those women will either cut the cord completely, or dial back a relationship into just using you for sex. I've come across a couple women like this now.

I agree with you completely. I agree that girls love dominance, especially in bed. But, I want you to consider why girls would rather love fucking a dick than using a vibrator of multiple speed and of any size they want? It's cause they want to feel that dominance (which you said) ... but also they want to feel the drama. Trying mixing dominance and drama/emotions into your sex ... and watch her come more than you've ever seen her come.

Calling her "My slut" or saying how her "vagina is yours" and how "wet her vagina is for your dick" will definitely turn a girl super horny. The drama here is having owner ship over her. Simply saying you a slut won't cut it ... you have to say "my" to illustrate ownership over her.

Try it out if you want ... I'm enjoying it ^_^.

It's skin surface area contact. Try oxytocin release.

Drama or intrusive thinking (from Helen Fisher) is for building up passion or sexual desire. The satiation of sexual desire is what closes the deal in the love department. Masculinity (dominance) is what keeps the attraction going.

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Love is one of those very delicate emotions; very hard to win yet easy to lose. What to know how to make a girl fall in love with you?... this question is asked by most men, especially once he's set eyes upon the girl he likes. It's not easy and it comes with hard 'work'. It's safe to say that ALL women are looking to find love, if they haven't already. So, how can you make that girl fall in love with you?...

1. Be her friend first: Wondering how to make a girl fall in love with you?....

One of the first steps is to become her friend, and you've got to do this FIRST, over and above anything else! It takes time to move from just being somebody to becoming her friend. Once you do this, and make sure you do, make it your priority to understand her. Do this naturally or else she might start to think you have an ulterior motive and end up putting her guards up which could result in her pushing you away!

You need to understand that, like any girl, she needs to be loved, cherished, adored and needed... So you need to make sure you do this but as a friend first, and nothing more. As your friendship grows, you will get to learn about what she likes and dislikes, her way of doing things, etc. This friendship will create a solid base for what you hope to achieve in the future. As you show your endearing personality throughout your friendship, subconsciously, you give her reason to create room for you in her heart. This is the first of how to make a girl fall in love with you

2. Make her feel special: Even though life is no fairy tale, every girl wants to be made to feel special. With that in mind, ensure you make her feel that way... be her "prince charming", whatever that means for her. This indeed is a killer step on how to make a girl fall in love with you... this, combined with the other steps in this article will put you on the right road towards love.

Let the time you spend together be phenomenal, make her feel comfortable around you, compliment her and show your appreciation for all she does, including those generous smiles she gives you, not to mention the happiness she has made you feel. Girls love to be showered with praise, so if you do this, trust me, she'll feel even closer to you.

Talking about your dreams and ambitions with her will make her feel important and that you trust her. Let her know she is always in your thoughts - first in the morning and last thing before you go to sleep. This, without doubt, will the firestarter for the magical things to come in the future, her heart will be singing your praises, uncontrollably... And that's just the way you want it to be! Think about it, any girl knowing that she is thought about even as one goes to bed will make her happy and give sweet blissful dreams, and it was ALL down to you, that's how to make a girl fall in love with you!

3. Communicate: Never forget to call her at least twice a day especially when she's not expecting it...

For example, call her at 1 am and give her your lovey-dovey reason for calling her... "I wanted to know how you are because I can't sleep not knowing!" That's another "How to make a girl fall in love with you" seed you've just planted... Remember, you reap what you sow!;-)

4. Respect: Are you still wondering how to make a girl fall in love with you?... Respect, respect, respect and more respect. Look, by this stage you should have, or be close too, going out on your first date... At every opportunity be respectful. For example, at the end of your date, be sure to take her right up to her door step and wish her a good night with just a handshake. Do not kiss her even if you feel she expects you to, unless during your friendship with her that's how you meet and greet. Let your gentleman manners be at their best. This will earn you respect for being patient.

5. Become attractive to her: No matter what country you come from, no matter what language you speak... Heck you have to do things in the right order! What do I mean?...

If you really want to know the number one true secret to how to make a girl fall in love with you, listen carefully...

To make a girl fall in love with you, she has to be attracted to you first...duh! That's obvious right?... I mean, come on, you wouldn't have sex with a girl just on meeting her without saying hello and finding out her name first, would you?... in fact don't answer that because some of you may have done this already...

All joking aside, if you want to know how to make a girl fall in love with you, first work towards being attractive to her... The good news is, there a science to doing this, and it doesn't matter if you're fat, small, thin, handsome, ugly, rich or poor, the science to being attractive to women is universal, trust me!... in fact, you don't have to trust me because I can prove it to you in my FREE, brand new, ground breaking, killer attraction guide. If you're interested in knowing how to make a girl fall in love with you, you absolutely must get this, I can't guarantee this guide will be available free forever, it's been receiving rave reviews, so this offer could be pulled down before you even finish reading this article, I apologies in advance if this is no longer available.
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Good luck!

Do we need a chain saw for this?

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You are seriously sick in the head if you think women want to be spoken to like that you idiot and as for the dude saying when she (for example) makes a thanksgiving dinner for you, don't turn up, well how stupid is that, never mind nasty. She's taken all that time to prepare it and cook it for you and you just fuck off somewhere else? Would YOU like that done to you? She just doesn't show up when you've taken your time to do something nice for her? No you'd be pissed off and being pissed off 'aint gonna make you love her you fucking jerk.

Also the guy who fucks his girlfriend senseless and then stares and stares into her eyes, you sound like a freakin weirdo. Come back again you three and let us know when you're dumped (it'll be very soon) because if you seriously think that kind of behaviour is going to make a girl fall in love you, you are immature beyond belief. Being nice to her one minute and then treating her like shit the next 'aint gonna work you childish assholes.

This is great advice... if you want a girl who owns your balls for the rest of your life. If you want to make a girl fall in love with you, stop worrying about how to do it and just be yourself. The ones that click with you will just start chasing you as you meet them. No Mary Poppins magic required.

So ignore all that and do the following:

Step 1 - be a naturally happy cool dude.
Step 2 - when you see a girl you are attracted to, let her know with your body language, but stop there.
Step 3 - let her do the work, just don't be a douche.
Step 4 - be happy, enjoy.

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Bro, I actually think @silvia trolled us hard, I nearly fell for it.

@Digital - You criticise me and others on here but offer no ideas or solutions of your own to disprove what we have done successfully for many years. I don't go around breaking hearts on purpose, i'm honest from the start if I'm not looking for a relationship. Sometimes I have upset people by putting my own needs first, but that's better than being an emotional tampon. Looking into a girl's eyes is scientifically proven to increase attraction. Fine, i'm a creepy weirdo. Chicks seem to love falling for this creepy weirdo though, it's very strange!

How about you be the nice guy, you can be the tampon, you can wait on your girl hand and foot, you can comfort her with cuddles and tissues when she's acting up like a dramatic little bitch, you can beg her to stay and give her flowers when she leaves you to fuck another dude, you can be her "friend" first and "friend" your way into her panties, you can call her twice a day to tell her not to forget how desperately in love you are with her, you can treat her like a princess and empty your bank account on presents every birthday, insignificant anniversary or Valentine's. Please educate me further on how to buy a woman's love, because obviously I don't have a clue what I'm doing!

Some of these posts are good, not great. But most of them are missing the point. The information they are giving is correct. Relationships are about communication, etc. But getting a girl to fall in love with you is about creating that fairy tale experience for her. Its about engaging her emotions. Its about engaging all of her senses. And then keeping her engaged in a variety of different ways, being completely unpredictable. Its about being stimulating in ways no one else is. Its about going far beyond the mundane and into the spiritual, causing a mystical connection between you two and a wonderland like experience whenever she is around you. Its about connecting her not only deeply with yourself, but herself, and who she really is inside, as a mind and spirit. Its about connecting her with her purpose in life, her ontology. Neurolinguistic Programming is a great way to really engage a woman in all these ways. But you also want to be very sexually stimulating and progressive of course, and be able to give her a sexual experience no one else does, one which is intense and spiritual. And you want to have a progressive lifestyle together, and really create a dream life with her. And of course work on your personal development together through your relationship work.

Let me know if you have any questions.

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