I am in LDR with this girl for almost 6 months. I was visiting her all the time because she was not able to visit me. However now she does not have any reasons not to visit me but now she says she does not have money.

Indeed, she does not have any money because she spent everything on fucking drinking and clubbing this weekend.

This is pissing me off. When in relationship I think both parts should be putting effort and money seeing each other. So I was like I don't have money either.

I wanted to explode but I took it calm and didn't made any comments.


Any advice on the situation would be helpful!

P.S and the tickets to come doesn't cost much...like 10$. So it's not like I couldn't pay it, but I am sure she could pay it as well if she would drink a few drinks less in a fucking club!!!!

I'm having close to the same issue now. Would love to hear a pro's opinion on this.

I'm willing to bet that there are other problems in your relationship than this. If a gf wouldnt spend $10 to see you something is wrong there. For her to even give this excuse, signals there's a lack of respect and caring and shit has been one-sided long before this. I'd tell her she has the money and to buy it. The excuse is bs

Long Distance Relationship = Approach Anxiety

Now . . . I do realize that some folks really have some real relationships and the separation of the two are caused by some professional/personal reasons that can't be avoided. But for 99%, this whole long distance shit is practiced by short dicked kids who have no confidence for getting another girlfriend. Look, if you could go out to any bar, club, park, hospital . . . and strike up a conversation, and FUCK any girl you meet on that day, would you be sooooo worried about some long distance shit? Come on. . . be serious. . .

These "Oh, shit? Long distance relationship? ," don't belong in a pick up forum. Go post in some Oprah Dr. Phil shit.

I think the only problem was that I was paying all the time. It was great for her, free hotel, free food, free orgasms etc. I think now she is expecting the same. I did payed because she didn't had money + she didn't go out clubbing or drinking. But now...fuck it.

I talked with her today...so she was like "No I don't have 10$. Do you really expect me to not to go clubbing and partying?". She said I was going clubbing very often as well (which is true but that's because I was able to afford both, partying and visiting her every fucking week). She said she might come next week if she will have money.

I am very disappointed since it was my birthday recently and I was expecting her to come and have some fun.

She doesn't give a shit about you, mate. Drop her, find someone from your own town. In an LDR she gets all the attention she craves without giving much in return. An LDR is not a good idea