Okay a bit of a story so I hope you guys are ready for a story.

Me and this girl have been talking for a while. We were hooking up (nothing more) on and off for about 2 months, its kinda complicated the whole story, she was hooking up with other guys before we did and a little during, she had just come out of a year and a half relationship. Shes a hb 9 (I don’t give 10’s) one of the hottest girls at our school, 20 we both go to the same college. Before summer I said we should put some boundarys up because if we keep doing what were doing one of us is gonna start to care and possible get hurt. She said shed think about it but kinda blew it off. We kept talking for a bit. I live with one of her really good guy friends and she came around one day in the summer. We were drinking one night and I txt her saying im going to sleep she can come cuddle if she wants. she never replied so I just passed out. After that I didn’t txt her or anything she didn’t either. Whenever she came around I would avoid her and go to my room or something, but if I did run into her I would but very polite. About a week later she text me goodluck for our game (I play on the same team as her guy friend). I ignored it. I then a few days later txt her about something else and had a normal conversation, I then stopped replying mid conversation. The next day she txt me I could sleep in one of the rooms in her apartment her and her friends were sharing as one of them wasn’t there for a while (I was at that point sleeping on a couch somewhere else that hurt my back). So I was like sweet (in my mind me and her were done at this point and was grateful to have a nice place to sleep). That night we were all at the place (where I was sleeping on the couch) and were drinking, everyone started passing out so me and her headed back to her apartment as this was the first night I was gonna sleep there (again I at this point had no intention of anything during the whole night). We started watching a movie when we got back. There was only one fouton and she cuddled up to me and I got comfortable. I asked her you comfortable and she said yea you? And I was like fine and she said your not are you and I said no really I am. We watched the rest of the movie and at the end we started hooking up and she got more and more turned on. She started saying I want too but we can’t and I said I never said you had to do anything and that its probably a bad idea. This happened a few times and everytime we said this was started getting more heated. We eneded up doing everything but sex (could’ve but i decided not too). We cuddled the rest of the night and the next day both of us agreed it shouldn’t happen again as we were living together and it would make our friendship awkward (I was just saying it because I knew there was no point fighting her) and that was the last said about it. We txted randomly after this about things such as groceries but nothing serious. I knew at this point she was going out to dinner with some guy before and after this event. Guys always wanted to take her places and she took advantage of this (hell I would too haha). Then three days later she threw a party people came round and we all got really drunk. Literally as soon as the last person left the door we started going at it and she kept saying we shouldn’t do this and I said yea we shouldn’t and carried her to my bed anyway. She kept saying we shouldn’t and I said yea we shouldnt and she said your only saying that and I said yea of course. we ended up having sex, It was really really good. While we were having it she said she had never came so much in her life. She would also every now and then say this cant happen again and wont happen again as we were living together and this is gonna ruin our friendship and we’re gonna get feelings if we keep doing this. She also said she doesn’t normally do this sort of thing with guys she isn’t talking to or dating. She ended up staying the night in my bed and when we woke up the next morning she left to her room. After about 10 minutes I went to her room and asked her why she thinks this is a bad idea, she gave reasons explained before and I was like it doesn’t have to be like that. I was trying to oppose what she thought with logic explaining to her why its not bad (bad idea I know) and then to top it off I tried to hook up with her again, kissed her on the neck, I could tell it was kinda turning her on but she wasn’t having it and would push me away. I tried this probably another two time and then talked to her again about why its not that bad (now I know I shouldn’t have don’t any of this). She said she needed to go shower so left and I ended up going to my room. Later that day I sent her a few snap chats she didn’t send me any. This next day (Friday) I had a tournament and we went away for the weekend. She sent me a few snap chats but I didn’t reply. On Saturday night I sent a snap saying we made it to finals, she replied yay goodluck. I never sent anything back. She tweeted at me and me friend the next day wishing us luck. I favourited it after the game (we won) but nothing else. Later that day she sent me congrats txt. We talked for a bit and then I got back. when we got back that day she was excited to see me and my friend and was really friendly I was exhausted and ended up passing out early. The next day all of us were out drinking and she was out with that other guy at another place but got dropped off and came to the bar we were at (shes really good friends with a friend of mine who was there). I felt a little between us at the start and then it died of near the end of the night. When we got back, even though all the signs were saying no I tried to hook up with her needless to say It failed, and I went maybe over the top a bit with trying. Next day I sent a txt to her saying sorry and how annoyed I was at myself as id thought it through before and thought It through during the weekend and totally agreed with her that this cant happen again. She accepted the apology and just said “just make sure it doesnt happen again lol”. Since then we havent really been txted, only with things we needed too like about food ect. She would send me one or two snap chats but nothing much. This happened two days ago.

Now what do you guys think? Obviously I do care a little about this girl, if we never talked again it wouldn’t be the end of the world though plenty of others out there but she’s really cool and I get along well with her. Any ideas how we can hook up again. If she hangs out with my friend (hes a guy) should I join them or just avoid her for a bit like I did before the first time we hooked up over the summer? Appreciate it.

Sounds like you should just quit trying and just let her from to you every now and then. She came to you when had the feeling like she couldnt or shouldnt have you, had great sex because of it. You just ignore her and game other women especially when she around you in the bars, she get jealous and want what she cant or shouldnt have again.