I did a search in this category on this but didn't find too much.

Girl I'm seeing withheld sex tonight after we had dinner at her place. We've been dating off and on for well over a year. Right after dinner she was saying how full she was and that she was tired.. We then walked into her bedroom as usual but before we even laid down she blurts out "I'm gonna be honest with you, don't think there's gonna be any hanky panky tonight". So I half jokingly said "what made you think I wanted hanky panky? A little presumptuous, don't you think?" to which she didn't really answer.

The funny thing is, last night we had amazing sex. Some of the best sex I've ever had with her. She came huge, we 69'd, a whole bunch of stuff.

And yesterday during the day she was saying how she wanted to see me tonight and fuck and was horny and stuff. So we went crazy yesterday but tonight nothing.

From what I've gathered most times when girls withhold it's to try and punish the guy (which is BS considering most girls want sex just as much as the guy), but in this instance I can't think of anything she would want to try and punish me for. Part of me wants to give her the benefit of the doubt (she did eat a lot at dinner) but at the same time considering the sex we had last night, seems odd to completely close shop without getting much of a chance to get her in the mood (I did try a little but wasn't happening).

Thoughts?

Thanks!

If she ate a lot she is probably self conscious about that and is worrying about unfortunate events that may happen. I'd suggest waiting until next time and if she's still cold then you probably offended her. Also, from food directly to sex is usually a bad idea. Let time flow to settle everything and avoid trouble.

Dude, one night is not "withholding sex." one night is just her not being in the mood. Maybe she ate too much, or the food disagreed with her and she's feeling sick. Maybe she's uncomfortable doing it in her parents' house. Maybe they heard you the night before and she's too embarrassed to risk it again.

Withholding sex... too funny...

Worry if it becomes weeks, rather than hours. For instance, my girl's been withholding for 3 months at this point.

I agree 1 night isnt a big thing but I only see her a few times a month.

Your girl been holding out for 3 months?!? Time to find a new girl bro...

A few times a month? Then why is this in the relationship forum?

Seriously, she probably just wasn't feeling good. Sucks, but it happens.

Wow Onoma, that sucks. Dude, find a new girl as the OP says.