After learning and reading all information that I have found in this and others forums, my seduction skills are pretty good now. I was changing girls every weekend, but now I want to stop - I found a girl that I would like to have for longer time.

So the story is... I dont know, maybe the problem is that month ago she broke up with her boyfriend (she was with him for about 2 years), BUT.. the thing that surprised me - she already asked about my plans about her after our first date. I said that I cant tell her, its too fast to predict something. At second date she already told me that she is jealous, because there is lot of girls that comes and gives me a hug and small kisses and she will hit the girl who will try to kiss me. ;D Looks like she is the girl who wants to control everything. Anyway, after our second date she had to go away for a week, second day she called me before sleeping, at the third day she didnt call and me too, now its the fourth day and she wrote me sms that she is offended that there is no interest from me theese days.

I dont know how to react, I know how to seduce girls but I dont know how to react on situations like this. I know that it is not good to change myself, start to write her sms or call all the time to ask her how she feels because than she will think that she can control me and I am thinking just about her. What would be the best way how to react, what to do?

I think you have it wrong somehow.


If, as you write, you want to stick with her for longer that, my friend, is a totally different game. Doesn't at all mean that you will become something different as you're obviously afraid. It means that she is exclusive to you and you are exclusive to her and you begin something common together which means that yes, you need to call her when she's away and talk sweet to her and care to know about how she's doing. It doesn't mean you will change and become something different and it doesn't mean that she is controlling you if you do it. You will be doing the things because you want to- if not then most possibly you don't want her next to you. At the same time you can still be playful and flirt and tease her and be the man you want to be and she felt attracted to in the first place. What you need to realize is that those two things do not contradict one another. You write as if it's either you should be in control or she- relationship means that you need to find some harmony between you and don't play- just be. I hope you do it, it's a whole different level and a better one if you ask me.