Im 21, and the girl im seeing is 27. She came up to me at the club, we exchanged #'s and then talked on the phone setting up the d2. Now after talking to this girl for a few hours i learned she lives by herself, has a well paying job, and has had many long relationships in the past (all of which she left). Now im beginning to psyche myself out. Im confident my skills, but this girls track record seems to far surpass mine. How do i stay on top without shooting myself in the foot?

I need advice on dealing with these independent 'rosie the riveter-esque' girls, without seeming like an indian mobster trying to smooth over an arranged marriage

Thx!

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Is she just trying to fuck or does she want another relationship........?

im not sure, she said she just got out of a 3 year relationship a month ago, and was talking about how shes been in relationships since she was 20.. The night we met she was dtf but i had to drive my friend home, so im not sure what to make of it

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I can relate as I was on the same boat. I'm 22 and she's 30, at first I was tripping over how to act and what to do , but I soon realized there's hardly any difference between her and a younger girl , as long as your mature for your age. Just keep it fun and playful , don't worry about what status you guys have and go with the flow. You will realize who she is to you in time . Keep it alpha and have fun , don't over think. That's all there is to it. You can take my word, we've been together a year and a half now. Oh and f close as soon as possible

Good luck