What's up players. How do you handle multiple girlfriends (not friends with benefits)? What do you do so they don't find out about the other(s) girlfriend(s)? How do you handle the situation if one of your gfs asks you (more than once) to see each other certain day, when you have set aside that day for your other gf? Taking in account for the whole situation that your girlfriends want exclusivity, and in their own words, they would never forgive an infidelity?

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You know what they say about different girls in different area codes?
That. If they're living in the same town, sooner or later they'll find out.

it's not MLTR if the girls aren't aware of each other, at least on some level - most any other situation and you're just being a completely dishonest pig. The ladies should know they are not exclusive, and this should have been your frame from the beginning. You should be the leader in setting up all meetings and your schedule and preferences take precedence - why have you dedicated particular days to particular girls in the first place? This is an inflexible arrangement, and rigidity always leads to brittleness.

If your 'girlfriends' have already stated that they won't forgive infidelity and they are demanding exclusivity then it's clear you haven't laid the groundwork properly for your house of cards, and you shouldn't be using cards to build houses in the first place.

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Sooner or later they'll find out. Until then you'll be so tired squeezing your brain to arrange your schedule with them and finding the correct lies so they won't find out(and believe me, their nose is a very sensitive one) that you will break it up yourself. I don't know , lying all the time doesn't look pleasant to me. If you think you are the rare type of guy that can handle all this headache successfully and even have some fun with it, let us know how you managed(for scientific purposes only- I'm not interested to do something like this myself).

^This. Alot of lying, hiding, checking your apt for remnants, balancing 3 schedules and sooner or later they're gonna get pissed becaus youre half there.

You got it all wrong, bro.

Girls will happily enter into an MLTR with you if you're nonjudgmental, nonreactive, laid back, non-needy, fun and awesome in bed. If you're honest about your set up from the very beginning, you'll minimize a lot of the problems that you'll get from lying.

Girls are very competitive. Once they know that you have other girls on the side, they'll do everything to win you over (clean your place, wash your laundry, lend you money, give you massages, cook your meals, run errands for you, etc.).

The proper foundation in an MLTR is the free sample and then the takeaway. It requires patience and some measure of planning. If you don't have patience then this strategy is not for you.

However, if you think in terms of dating lifecycle value, say, 3-5 girls will give you more benefits, lesser drama and almost zero risks compared to having 30-50 lays who'll give you STIs, demand a lot of your time and effort, want you to be their boyfriend, etc. then take heed.

What you can do in this case is friendzone the sexiest and most beautiful girls you're sarging and just be fun around them. You should also make sure to sexually escalate all the time and eject at once when girls talk about problems and what have you. Always set the frame for sex. They'll ask you about sex to test you. What you need to do is reply like sex is no big deal but showcase your sexual techniques without telling who the girls you're fucking.

Do this free sample to showcase the MLTR attractive traits (nonjudgmental, nonreactive, laid back, non-needy, fun and awesome in bed) for some 2 to 3 weeks and then go no show for a month. In the meantime, sarge in another place/geographic location. When you go back to sarge your girls after a month, they'll have learned what they'll be missing. This is the time that you escalate fast towards the f-closes.

You don't have to lie. They'll know that you're fucking other girls especially when you go no show for a month. Once girls learn that you're a scarce resource, they'll treat you like a king just so you can spend some time with them. This way, you dictate the day and time you're going to bang their pussies with almost zero drama.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

I mostly follow Blackdragon's rules for MLTR'S:
http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 1871591100

While I may nitpick certain details of BD's post.. the majority of it is pretty damn good.

I also agree with pretty much everything Hellhound just said.

EDIT: Oh, and don't forget Tubarao's rules!: http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/ ... rules.html

-Wolf

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Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

First, I want to thank most of you for talking from experience
And how do you make them aware that you have other girlfriend? Do you say "Don't, get me wrong, the sex was great, but, I'm banging other girl. You should be grateful with me for being completely honest"?
Good advice there

So how do you build MTLR?

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I'm sorry kid, but I'm not your lab rat. If you have no experience in the subject you shouldn't reply my question.

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Here's something I do from here: general-problem-about-girls-always-want ... 63509.html
I'm also interested in knowing some of defenestration's MLTR field techniques. Maybe I can use some new ideas from him.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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And what do you do if right after the first time you have sex with them they tell you that they want exclusivity in the "relationship"?

And what if right after having sex they say to you "let's see each other next week"?

You've got it! To bang a girl only 2 or 3 times and then to go after another one and so on is very time consuming.

And in the "no show" period, what to do if they send you sms or phone you? Do you reply?

This means that if you call a girl after disappearing for a month and she agrees to see you, she's ready for an MTLR?
And if she doesn't want to see you again, you will lose the chance to fuck her again forever?

Very good reply BTW. It would be awesome if you could clarify my doubts cause it makes a lot of sense what you do to get MLTR.

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Thanks a lot player, all of them added to "my favorites"

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I'm completely sure he'll have some interesting experiences to share and thanks for the link too.

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Ignore. Take out your girlie supplies and offer it to her. If you're banging several girls in motels, get a small apartment for your f-closes. It's more cost effective this way.
If that does not fit in your schedule, postpone and reschedule, or flake. Give girls the gift of the emotional rollercaster ride. Flaking is a very good technique that girls use on men and it's also a very good technique that I use on women.
I'm not sure about the other PUAs but my balls hurt a lot when I'm fucking 3 girls a day. I think 2 to 3 f-marathons every week is more reasonable. Plus you'll better manage your STD risks this way.
No show + no contact.
Calling her before showing yourself is not an option. See her in person like you just happened to drop by where she is. Reading her body language is crucial to your escalation and f-close. If you can't see her reaction, then you cannot calibrate and sexually escalate properly.

You cannot also gauge if you have manifested the MLTR attractive traits as you should.
Why give a fuck? Sarge more girls.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html