What the... I don't even... I see Betamax is just as confused as I am, judging by his comment which is quite on the spot.
Okay... Where to start... This situation is just bad on so many levels.
So first let me just see if this is correct. You have been dating for two months, but she spent the first month of the relationship in hope of another guy who was some other chick's fiance. WHAT IN THE...? Erm... right... Too early... Too early...
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She went on vacation with her family for the past 3 days, and I told her ahead of time that I was not going to expect contact nor initiate much contact because she was on vacation.
Why... would you tell your girlfriend that. "Listen, I'm not going to contact you and don't even expect you to contact me. You're on vacation therefore you don't exist for me in that 3 days" WHAT THE...??? No... still too early...
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Anyway, since then I have invited her out twice, and both times she had excuses that she had never used before, for example her sick grandpa, when he has been sick for quite a while now and she would still see me despite her telling me she should see him. I've always told her to spend time with him before me and been completely understanding about the entire situation but, now it just seems like an excuse she is using.
You literally told her to spend time with him before you and now you're flipping out on it... I thought only women do these kinds of stuff. *Sigh*... WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK WERE YOU THINKING???
Of course she is behaving distant. You're pretty much telling her to do so. What do you expect? I don't understand...