Me and my gf are both living with our parents, I'm 20 she's 19 so its expected to have a hard time hooking up. So last night, my gf confessed that she had sex in adventurous places like the park, staircases, school, etc. I guess my pride got hit when I realized that whenever i would want to do it somewhere adventurous she would always flat out refuse me. So knowing that she's done it with other men sucks. One of her excuse was that it was a long time ago (she was a virgin till 17) and that she's "changed" and i shouldn't use her past against her. I don't buy it for one second, it also sexually frustrates me as its the summer and we only do it once or twice a week. I'm a MAN damnit and I have my needs!

I need constructive opinions please!

I think it is wrong to use her past against her for sure. Doesnt matter who she has been with and where before you. But it do matter if she says she loves you and absolutely refuses you in places that you want to have sex.

Hey, she tried having sex in adventurous places. That's good.. it means she's okay with trying new things. However, she decided she didn't really care for it, so you should respect that. It's not her fault that you live with your parents. It's your job, as the MAN, to handle logistics. So, until you move out, or work out some compromise with your parents about having sex in the house, you're just going to have to live with it.

-Wolf

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There might be somethings going on her mind, she might have realized that its improper to do it on public, getting somehow matured or she's just bluffing about it, trying to impress you but unable to prove it or worse, might have lost her feelings for you to do it.

you'll just have to squeeze the truth out of her without giving her a hard time mate:)