Been seeing my ex for a couple months now after splitting up for 6 months (I ended things last October and she initiated the rekindling at the beginning of March).

I've made it known to her that I'd like to be in a relationship with her again. She does not want this. All she wants is sex, with having dinner on occasion so that she won't feel like it is just friends with benefits (which is basically what it is). She calls it "dating". And has said that this is all she is able to give at the moment and does not know when or if this will change.

FYI, my ex is a divorcee who's husband walked out on her years ago. Plus she called off an engagement to a different guy a while back. Basically, she is damaged goods.

Problem is she wants to have her cake and eat it too...the other day when I mentioned I was hanging out with a female friend of mine (I mentioned her name), she started acting jealous and asking a bunch of questions.

But she insists on keeping things at arms length. Meaning we only hang out when it is just the two of us...she never invites me out with her friends and I don't with mine anymore. I did a couple times, to which she would either say maybe or not even acknowledge the question.

Yesterday we were texting and I suggested that we hang out once she is off work on Friday, and she said she couldn't because she had to get up early on friday for the morning shift (she works at a restaurant and closes on Fridays). I said OK but that Saturday would be out too then since we both had plans.

At that point she got pissy and said "So...I can stay up late when I close and then open but you can't move your schedule on Saturday?" To which I told her to calm down and that I thought she may have had some flexibility on Friday night, but if not that's fine and that we would play Saturday by ear.

Basically I'm ready to write this chick off once and for all but wanted to get some other opinions. The sex is almost always hot and she cums every time. I see her once a week at most. Ultimately she wants to pin me down but not have the responsiblity of a relationship. Don't know why I should keep doing this.

Agreed?

Any input much appreciated.

Thanks

She's your ex. She shouldn't have saturday privileges. If you have plans with other chick for saturday, by all means go ahead with it. Your ex is, as you stated, damaged goods.