So ran into this conversation my gf of 2+ years was having with a guy in class. We are both very sexual, but she doesn't come off that way.
I have been busy with work lately and preparing for work trip overseas. I work and she went back to college.

What she told me is that she borrows his calculator for class now and again. I asked her after seeing below banter "how he was doing?"(when the calculator came up) and she was like "He's fine, I only saw him for two seconds today"(technically may be true) all the while she had this long conversation with him online.

This is a long distance relationship mind you.

So, gentlemen read the below and tell me : Keeper or Not? don't forget to answer the poll


[Classmate - Boy] i have a question, in order for sexual intercourse to produce a pregnancy, both partners must experience orgasm, ejaculation, an erection or none of the above

[GF]um, is this a serious question?

[Classmate - Boy] yes

[GF] for which class?

[Classmate - Boy] bio 106

[GF] sry. cant answer you

[Classmate - Boy] cant answer or dont know?

[GF]dont know

[Classmate - Boy]okay thats fine,

[GF]i want to say none of the above though. sperm can still come out without an ejaculation. and the orgasm is the same thing. so that just leaves erection

[Classmate - Boy]can a female have an erection?

[GF]yes? but that doesnt matter either when talking about pregnancy

[Classmate - Boy]hmm...weird question

[GF]yeahh, do you know what time the testing center opens

[Classmate - Boy] depends on the days
mon-thursday eith 8 or9 to 9pm
friday 8 or 9to 2 or 5 pm
why?

[GF]8 or 9 is a big difference. im trying to take class1 before class2, so i can leave by 11 at the lastest. my bf is going to out of the country tomorrow and he's so sad i cant say bye to him. but i have so much to do. unless i can take algebra in the morning

[Classmate - Boy]ohh, someone is going to be alone all summer!

[GF]chill. just 3 weeks. though it sucks that the 2 weeks i have off, he wont be here

[Classmate - Boy]
<<testing center timing>>

[GF]
where'd you get that??? i've been looking all over the college website
8:01pm

[Classmate - Boy]<<school website>>
im [Classmate - Boy], i know how to get stuff lol

[GF]lol ok 1 hour. think that's enough time? probably not i took 2 hours for <class1> today. but that was harder.

[Classmate - Boy] what are you learning in <class 3>?

[GF] um like <what she learned>

[Classmate - Boy] calculator or no

[GF] i think so but i never use it

[Classmate - Boy]how long does it take you to do the last couple of <class2> tests?

[GF] they're all quizzes. but im going over the review for the final and it's taking me less than an hour. that's with typing to you in between

[Classmate - Boy]okay, then you should be fine. why not take it tomorrow or something?

[GF]oooo what i could do is go see him and then come back to campus and take it. that'll probably be safer. plus <town> is like 5 minutes off my route back home.
i am taking it tomorrow. that's the problem

[Classmate - Boy] there you go, just don't be late for the exam

Do you guys have experience in the long distance thing? Do you trust her? Has there ever been any issues like this in the past? These are questions that would shed some more light on how you think she’s gonna deal with not only this guy, but any other dudes with an agenda.

Otherwise, At this point, don’t be worried about your girl.

If she was even giving it consideration she wouldn’t mention his existence (generally).

The guy, on the other hand, is just being a young guy trying to be flirty. He’s probably trying to create a sexual frame so she’s more open about it to him…but it looks like she shut his ass down pretty well. After shutting down the sexual stuff for the most part she was blindly bantering. It looked like it was just to be polite, so I don’t think you have to worry.

I’m not sure how your particular girlfriend is, but on many occasions people will throw out some pretty harmless white lies…like how she only saw him for 2 seconds. She definitely wouldn’t tell you, “oh yeah and we texted all throughout the day”…and neither would you right?

I wouldn’t take this necessarily as a lie that breaches your trust. Part of it is protecting you, just like us guys will lie our asses off (“I only had like 2 beers don’t worry”) to keep our gfs/wives happy.

When you can start worrying:
- When he invites her to “study” and she actually agrees.
- When she’s a bit more secretive about her correspondence with him.

Do you guys have experience in the long distance thing? Do you trust her? Has there ever been any issues like this in the past? These are questions that would shed some more light on how you think she’s gonna deal with not only this guy, but any other dudes with an agenda.

Look like he tried subtly but she dodged. Seems like she is just being polite.

Lol, is this a serious question?

She did nothing wrong. If anything, she did what a good girlfriend should do: (1) explicitly mentioned you to the guy, (2) expressed discontent she couldn't make it to say bye to you and (3) it appears she even tried to see if she could somehow manage to see you before leaving (correct me if I'm wrong).

She also deflected the guy's sex talk and attempted to answer his question objectively (to help him, not to flirt). So if you even think for a second she was being unfaithful in any way, you have some serious issues bro.