okay so, this girl and I started to date about a month and a half everything was going great and everything is sort of going well now, Last night i was hanging out with her she told me " that she feels like im using her just for sex" I told her no, the reason why is because I want to be with you. well then she after that she said she feels like we have been hang out wit each other too often. For example last week we saw each other everyday of the week, so I understand and that she needs time for herself, and that i wont come over unless im invited over. The question is did i do everything the right way ?? And if so should I stop texting her often and just let her come to me ??? idk any help would be very much appreciated.

You can definitely make them dislike you when you start smothering them.

You may think smothering excessively is a true sign of your feelings for a special someone.

But in reality, smothering is a needy act. And needy is not where you want to be!

You don’t smother your partner because of their feelings. You smother someone with affection because you crave for their affection, you need the attention.

Give your them their space to grow. Spending time with each other can feel great. But even if you’re having the time of your life between your girls legs, learn to back away and give space now and then. You may not realize it, but at times, constantly having you around all the time may end up annoying the shit out of her. The adage, absence makes the heart grow fonder, exists for a reason.

Don’t always be available. Do your own thing. You had shit to do before you met her, fucking go do it!

Don’t constantly call/text them. Keeping in touch is okay. But expecting an update on their life every couple of hours is just obsessive. (stalker!)

Balance fucking and just hanging out, obviously she is dropping hints on this already.

Feel more confident about yourself and the relationship you’re in. More often than not, weak men smother their girl when they feel like they’re not good enough for her! And guess what, they sense that shit like radar!

By constantly feeling like you need to do more, you may end up making things worse than better. Start believing in yourself and know that you’re the shit!

Think about it like this, if Pizza is your favorite food, but suddenly that's the only shit you have had to eat for the last month, it's really going to start loosing it's flavor!

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thank you so much! i completely appreciate, so your saying that I should basically give her that space, do what i do and everything will hopefully fall into place?

That's the idea, yes.

No need to tell her that! Actions speak louder than words.

Give her enough space to wonder what your up to.

Give her the chance to chase you a little.
She can't miss you much if your always up her ass can she?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

EXACTLY