Hey guys,

so here I met a really nice woman one month ago. I was really heavy on picking up girls before meeting her and I planned with my friends to go to Europe for 3-4 weeks this august. We still haven't planned everything and didn't buy the tickets. The point of that trip was to go around France/Spain/Ibiza/Prague etc.. visit a bit the cities and pickup a ton of chicks since we were all single guys...

Now my problem is that I met this incredible women and I actually really like her. She is the first girl out of so many in the last 3-4 years that I actually really cared for. I only know her for a month but up to now everything is so great. I told her about my trip when I met her and her first reaction was: I don't trust guys that go into trips... It doesn't help that her ex cheated on her on a trip so she is a bit insecure! I told her that she can trust me and all the stuff but I'm not sure it convinced her! So I brought back that subject and she seemed to be ok with it a week ago and she even said oh I'll check for you if I can get cheaper tickets but she actually never did.

2 days ago she asked me if the purpose of my trip was cultural or what and I just changed subject very smoothly and she didn't ask back. She started telling me that her friend keeps telling her to go to Thailand and some bullshit like that and I feel that she's saying that maybe just to see my reaction or something.

So here I am in a dilemma.. the problem is my friends wants to book right now for august but I feel like I am not ready to commit to this trip right now. But the problem is that I feel like I would be letting down my friends since we have been planning this for a couple months now and I was really down before meeting her!

Would it be AFC to drop down that trip and tell my friends I can't go? Or should I just tell my girl that the trip was planned and that I can't let down my friends. You guys think she's going to hold a grudge against me and that she'll want eventually to get "even" with me?

I know for sure I wouldn't be down if the roles were reversed so that's why I'm in this dilemma. What do you guys think?

I would smack you if you were my friend. Even considering not going on this trip because of her is a sin! Go and show her who the man is, you do what you want to do, and she should trust you, point.