I was in a casual relationship with a girl for 3 months until she got a job abroad at the end of last summer. We kept in touch and met up again whenever she was back. After christmas i got a new job in Saudi Arabia where talking to a woman in public can result in going to prison so i was skyping/texting her regularly for a bit of female contact and i felt we became closer during this time.
Then a month ago she invited me to visit her for a long weekend in April and i naturally jumped at the chance but as the trip draws closer she is now having second thoughts. She said:

"I guess I'm just kind of worried that it would mess with my head if you come over...I mean we're obviously going to sleep together...then I won't see you for at least another 12 weeks, possibly longer. I dunno,
It's not at all that I wouldn't like to see you, I'm just afraid it would mess me up because sleeping with people and then not seeing them messes with girls' heads."

This took my completely by surprise and i've no idea how to fix this problem. I really wanna go visit her, i need this trip so any help is appreciated.

Also i'm fairly certain another man isn't involved as we are open with each other about that since we started seeing each other.

To this I would say "Stop being silly, your just over thinking things. You want to see me, and I am still going! That's all there is to say!"

Be bold and firm, immovable!
Don't bring this up, and dismiss it if she does!

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