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bfabian
PostPosted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 12:54 pm 
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been dating my girl for about a month now .. i realized i gave her too much attention . im falling head over heels as you can say . but its starting to show because im giving her too much, before anything happens on her side i want to slowly take things back . if its too late? i was too clingy with her i realize that. now somehow i have to push back and get her to come back to me . how do i go about doing this? without i guess ruining what we have before it gets ruined more..and making it better?
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Hunter_Foxe
PostPosted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 1:02 pm 
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Stop contacting her for a while. Stop initiating conversation with her, wait for her to contact you. Go out with your buddies on the weekend drinking without her. Show her you have a life away from her and she will see you'd be happy whether you're with her or not.

Depends how AFC you've become. If you're feeling really ballsy and devious, you could even dump her to make her beg you to come back. You'd have to be confident and congruent to do this though, or she will know you're bluffing.
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bfabian
PostPosted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 1:07 pm 
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Stop contacting her for a while. Stop initiating conversation with her, wait for her to contact you. Go out with your buddies on the weekend drinking without her. Show her you have a life away from her and she will see you'd be happy whether you're with her or not.

Depends how AFC you've become. If you're feeling really ballsy and devious, you could even dump her to make her beg you to come back. You'd have to be confident and congruent to do this though, or she will know you're bluffing.
if she really likes me she should come back? right?... trying to reassure myself now ..lol
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Hunter_Foxe
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if she really likes me she should come back? right?... trying to reassure myself now ..lol
If that's your attitude, don't break up with her. Your frame isn't strong enough to pull off the dumping move with congruence. You have one-itis. The principle of dumping her to make her chase you could backfire and she may never come back. But that's one of the core principles of pickup; you have to be willing to lose the girl to get the girl.

Try everything else I said except dumping her.
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i promise if she thinks you are getting with another girl then her interest in you will as if by magic come back, right now she thinks she can click her fingers and you'll come running
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