First time I post ahah.. well heres my problem right now...My gf of six months is going to prom with another guy, she didnt tell me herself but i found out when I was talking to her sister ( thinking I already knew ). I didnt mention it to my gf and prom is 2 weeks away, yesterday she finally mentioned it but all she said was "im gunna go shopping for prom". I also found out the doode shes going to prom with took her flowers to work (i found out by facebook) . I am only 19 so although i am not in high school i still couldve gone but she didnt invite me. I didnt really think much of it but I talking about it with a friend (not pua) and he said it was a direct breakup for him. I am a little upset that she didnt invite me or even mention it to me. Should I talk to her about it ? or should I just tell her to have fun at prom? and If i do talk to her how should I tell her? Thanks guys.!

What the hell... I wouldn't even know where to begin with this shit. Either you're actually not dating her, or she has shit for brains.

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How do you think i should tell her?
The reason why i didnt tell her anything was because i didnt wanna seem hella Jelious and looking like i am trying to ruin her fun cuz that might push her away from me... but i do want to Let her know how upset I am

If you're afraid standing up for your dignity will actually push her away, then there's no reason why you should be with her to begin with. Be a man and respect yourself. I wouldn't even talk to her. I'd just walk.

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Talk to her, ask her why she didn't open up about that prom night, and who is her date on prom night. She is your girlfriend, and you have the right to ask her all those things. Don't wait that the time will come that maybe she will cheat on you. Just confront her, but in a calm way.

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Thanks guys... im just gunna walk away... im suree if i stay with her shit like this will happen all the time.. thanks for you opinons

Ya dude walk away. That isn't worth it. There are plenty of Hott chicks out there

This is stupid advice

Grow some balls, drop this chick. She has disrepected you in a bad way. She is treating you like a chump.

...You say girlfriend... What's your definition of a girlfriend (I know its a dumb thing to ask...but maybe whatever being a GF to you is def. not her definition of her having a boyfriend ...ie...if this is the case, shes not dumb...I say this because I've come across people like this in the past.)

Other then that...yea everyone else is right, forget her...

But remember the way I see things...it is always the mans fault for when it comes to the game...meaning you've played your cards WRONG A LONG LONG TIME AGO that makes her know its perfectly fine for her to treat you like this...You needa figure out when this kind of thing first happened, and address it/know it so that you don't screw up in the future.

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This is a total disrespect to your cock dominance, walk away , don't talk about it either or complain, you got better things to do, if you ever get back to her, you will be sucked in by her reality. the power position will be too lopsided to her favour.

best solution: move on, don't waste your time with trash.

My heart goes out to you, bro. At 19, this would have torn me up. I'd ask her why she didn't tell you; if she gives you a stupid answer or becomes defensive, get rid of her. Aside from that, it's your call.

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How come no-one ever thought of this haha?
Find another better girl at the same school and take her to prom but tell your girlfriend first that this girl asked you as a favour or something and you wanted to be nice, thus making her look bad because she didn't tell you and you'll see her at the prom with the other guy:D.

Of course I'm not really being serious, but if you can ruin the prom for her, that would be a nice way to burn the bridge haha

Excellent idea but this may be hard to implement... He's not in her grade so it would be harder to find a willing girl.

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