| This may be the wrong section, but things have definitely progressed with this girl into some semblance of a relationship. The problem is, things are stagnated.
*Disclaimer, this will be a little long*
So I meet this girl at Yoga in December (I do not go to Yoga to pick up or even really talk to chicks, I do it for me, she actually approached me) and I learn that she is a new teacher at a school for which I actually do the retirement plans for.
It's a stereotype for financial advisors in our field to sleep with young teachers, so I actually set up a meeting at her school the next day strictly for the intent and purpose of making a sale.
After the lunch visit at her school (which wasn't for another month) she comes in and strikes up a convo. Since she was very friendly and awesome, and definitely at least an 8.7, word vomit happened, and I invited her to explore the town with me and my two dogs (not my usual PUA game, I was going very conservatively since this concerned my job).
She said yes, and we agreed to meet up at a local coffee shop that I had helped open a few years ago, which had my picture on the wall, and when she came in I was chatting with a very hot girl who is a very good friend of mine (DHV DHV DHV).
We have a fantastic walk around for two hours or so, absolutely no awkwardness, just chatting it up. Her sister was coming into town, and I had to attend two super bowl parties, so we set a follow-up date for the middle of the week.
We text nonstop all day long, every day, til then. Literally probably 50+ exchanges a day... and she loves it all. I'm going my usual route of talking about new age channelers and the nature of he human experience and changing emotional levels and feedback... chick crack philosophy, in a nutshell, and she's totally on board, says I;m blowing her mind.
Over drinks on date two, I run the cube, again blowing her mind, and my buddy invites us over to his place for some wine and fireside chit-chat, which we do until like 11pm. It being a school night, we leave, make out in my car for another half hour, then say good-bye.
Text gambit starts up again the next day with just as much ferocity, and we schedule another date at the end of the week, that Thursday.
I drive her to a classy brewpub and basically tell her the truth- that I was actually involved in a polyamorous relationship with a girl in NJ that I'd been seeing for the past few month, and that she would have to be okay with that.
She says it's a lot to digest, and doesnt want to make a decision right away, so we shuffle back to more normal talk and end up making out for another half hour in the car before we each head home.
The next day, she says it's all good, we can keep on carrying on. She also says, since I;m being so open and honbest with her, that she feels I deserve the same, and tells me her on-again, off-again bf lives in the area and they're still trying to make it work.
That's when I kinda said fuck-it, showed up at her house, made her dinner, and then took her upstairs to her room and gave her 5 orgasms over the course of the night.
The next day she's blown away, loved every minute of it, and were still talking nonstop.
I push for another date, and she starts saying she doesn't know, starts withdrawing fast.
I do soem self-examination, and realize I really, really like this girl. So I go over to her house and tell her that I'd break up with NJ girl for her, because she's come to mean so much to me. Her bf, is off again because apparently he cheated on her multiple times and she kicked him to the curb, and is generally emotionally abusive. So I told her that it's up to you, you know what we can both offer, and then promptly left.
She kept texting, sayign she's indecisive and doesn't know what she wants, so I go meet her sister in DC, her closest confident, and win her over completely. Sis said to go with me over her bf. We leave from the sis's place to meet up with a bunch of my friends in DC. They all love me to death and haven't seen me in a long time, so we have an amazing time, the girl included.
She said she didn't really think I was real until that moment, she thought I was just really good at putting on prolonged acts, that I was too good to be true, but then she saw how much all my friends loved me, and realized I was legit.
She then meets with her priest the next day (her father sucked as a father, so she started going to her priest for fatherly advice when she was younger and just didn't stop), and right before I drop her off says she wants to break up with her bf and start a relationship with me.
I said I'd take care of things on my end as well.
So I'm on cloud nine, and then get a text saying she wishes me the best of luck but she cant go through with it.
About that time I'm considering strangling a priest with his rosary beads, but then I find out that he told her point blank to dump her current bf.
So everyone tells her to dump this emotionally abusive asshole, everyone thats met me thinks I;m the shit, herself included, and she pulls back. I text herback and forth some more, and she's just locked in place.
Then, her uncle dies, another one of her close father-figure, and she goes to me for emotional support. At this point, I was tired and emotionally exhausted, so I basically told her if she needs that kind of support, to go get it from her boyfriend, and to let me know if she ever takes up on te advice that everyone she knows and trusts has been telling her for the past month.
Is there anything I can do here? Or is this a lost cause? She admitted to falling in love, feeling butterflies, and loving everything we've done together, that she can't trust her bf, that her bf can't trust her now that he knows she's cheated on him with me, and she's still going to try and make it work with his guy?
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