So lemme give you a little rundown on whats been happening between me and this chick...

A couple weeks ago she started distancing herself, and i know that was because of my neediness. She didn't tell me that, she claimed it was because she was going through problems, her mom just got vertigo and she's been stressed with school and finding a job. I gave her space, quit calling her babe and saying I love you because she went cold on me first so i went cold on her.

anyway fast forward a week or two. I spoke to her on the phone here and there, shes been having a tough past couple of days. her dad left the house 3 days ago, i called her babe the other day when i told her i wanted to hang out. When we met up she was distant and cold.... she warmed up a couple of times but mostly i felt like she was trying to distance herself. I i tried to kiss her first but still cold....she didn't say i miss you, i love you, babe or nothing but i did end up getting her to cuddle in bed eventually and started making out and fooling around, i was sure to be aggressive with her and would pull away so she would come kiss me instead of me kissing her.

I'm not quite sure how to handle this, I mean it does sound selfish trying to get her to chase me while she's going through this but i can tell this neediness is disgusting her, because to be honest i've been the one chasing pretty hard through this relationship..there was a point were we both put in just as much..but now im faced with this problem

I feel if i push too much she might go away and if i pull she'll get fed up disgusted and leave...

How do i get her to become attracted and chasing me again?

i saw her lastnight...so should i even text her or call her today?

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LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT!

You want her to chase you, stop chasing her. Your biggest mistake is being afraid to loose her. Dont Soft Next and dont contact her unless she contacts you first. No dont call or text her unless she does it to you first. Only put into the relationship what she is putting in.

You have the main answer you need in your own question writhe.
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