So I decided I needed a change for all the other girls I was talking too. I met this girl online and we were emailing yesterday and decided to meet. Originally it was under the auspices of FWB cause I realized I need some ass while I'm working the other girls. I just ended another FWB cause she wanted more, and I realized after all this time of being single it would be nice to have a steady girlfriend. But in the meantime when I'm working that out cause I'm picky i thought a hookup would be nice.

She had something similar where he wanted more and after the initial part where he said he wanted to be friends she got turned off to the idea of being with him. And he did what the girl did to me really wanted more and she wasn't feeling it so was worried bout the next guy doing the same, as was I. Says she is looking for a real friendship

So any met her for a dinner she had suggested had great conversation couple hours later she invited me over we laughed joked, watched stupid porn, messed around not Full Close cause time of the month but sure close to me. Then she watched tv an hour later I went home.

Problem: The type of girls I normally FWB are the ones I'm not as mentally attracted too so eventually I end it but it was sortof fun. This chick I can tell right away I like her mentally as well . Hell if I know if we could date cause I just met her and that takes time. But I'm a little worried I Set up a situation with some chick I could end up liking more, and getting burned cause the frame was set up for FWB.

Fast forward

So today I asked her to chill later in the week. She said depending on work, but then realized she couldn't do the fwb. I told her the same, and said if you just wanna hang out without all the labels I'm down. Basically I realized this was a really cool chick and not the type I'm just wanna have a fwb. Since she just had broken up with someone who told me I had a really good time blah blah but I felt really sad when you left, and who knows probably the usual emotional pool of stuff a lot of women have.

So I realize the timing is off, but can I save this. I asked her to chill ago, and she is seemed on and off . Told her that I realized I was done using people for sex, and she asking oh then what are you going to do for sex? She had a great time, and so did so I think its silly to have a semi-connection with someone and never see them. Is this saveable?

She just got out of a relationship if I read correctly.

Sounds to me like she thought getting some ass would help her get over her ex, just another label for a rebound. Then when she met you she had feelings come up, either for you, or for her ex, and she no longer was sure what she wanted to do.

Your best bet, if you want anything to happen, play it cool and be calm and supportive. That means if she needs space, just ease off and casually keep in touch until she starts giving signals otherwise. Use what you know of her to make whatever interactions you do have positive and that's about all you can do. And of course, do not sit around and wait for her to come around. There are other cool chicks out there, and some of them aren't still getting over a recently ended relationship.

She did contact me yesterday. Making some jokes. She did ask me how long I would wait to contact an ex and then how long it would take to contact someone new she had been talking too. Said she just met me and I should have to deal with her baggage. Still kept up joking small talk after. Mixed signals for sure but I'm going with it. She didn't have to text me right?

Mixed signals because of mixed emotions. She's not ready for a relationship. My advise to you is to be careful. You're nothing but a rebound at this point. Keep that in mind.

I will thanks. But can u convert the rebound?

Also when would be a good idea to send her a message again?