Ok so ive been seeing this girl for 5 months and shes been my girlfriend for 2 months, before she was my girlfriend I didnt really care that much about her, but then after she became my girlfriend I started caring more about her saying "I love you" alot more. She even noticed this herself and said i was becoming "soft" (assuming it means beta)

Before she was my girlfriend, i always told her i was busy and that i had other things to do, just not caring at all but occasionally talked to her. After she became my girlfriend i started going out less and i was always free and SPAM with her alot, i noticed recently that she lost alot of the attraction. She used to tell me that she loved me like 10 times a day, giving me compliments all the time etc, but she just stopped doing that now and honestly i miss it.

Yeah i know i have to be more alpha and stop saying that i love her and shit but what else can i do to make her crazy about me again?

It's probably just time running its course.

Please don't overthink things and start reading into things that aren't there. It will be obvious if she loses attraction, you can't expect her to be super affectionate 100% of the time. Don't mention it to her, just be cool.

Get some hobbies, go out with friends and become an interesting and fun person.

Become that person you used to be during those 5 months.

You need to know that sealing the deal only means that you guys went from an open relationship to a committed relationship. The only difference in that is that, she asked you to be her BF, you then bargain with her that no exes, nor secret boyfriends before you said yes. That's all. It's not a ritual where she now takes you for granted and now you can stop playing the game and be yourself. You did by showing affection. You are a man. Woman shows affection because of your manly actions. What you have done here is that, you have created your own downfall by making yourself more like one of her girlfriends. She really needs a boyfriend.

First of all, you have a benchmark to attain. Your benchmark is winning her affection back and you still have a chance since only 2 months had gone by after sealing the deal. So your mission is to get her to say I love you 10 times whatever it needs to be. First, you need to lower your contact with her gradually. You used to be busy then, then I guess start getting busy with doing your stuff. But DO IT gradually till permanent NC. Then stop saying I love you and caring her so much. It's her job to care for you and your job is only to provide safety and security and warmth in bed after she initiated the deed. I suppose you guys had sex already? If so, still do it until NC.

Wait and sit back and let her chase you. Then you rebuild your relationship again and it should be in no time soon that she will bounce back to her old self unless that becomes extremely suffocating to you! I mean, do you really need her saying I love you 10 times in a day and giving compliments?

Remember. Under no circumstances should you make accusations that she's cheating on you. NEVER. NEVER ask why she's gone cold. They will backfire on you. Let her work herself through.

Sounds good, ill see what happens.
I dont need it, it just annoyed me how she did it before and not now, felt like i was doing something wrong.

When you achieved your goal to get her back to the previous benchmark, always remember to push it HIGHER by being more of a man. You'll see. She'll help you through it. Affection is really infinite. Get better in LTR as it becomes more spiritual. Imagine the feeling a girl holding your hand and then you get warm tingling feeling on your palm PLUS inside your tummy! Your job is to push her interest level in her higher and to never let it fall. That's easy said than done, but yes it can be done. Hang in there!