It all began in 8th grade.
I was bad with the opposite sex after my falling out with my first crush.
I lost myself at an early age and gave all I had to the idea of what I thought love was.
I became needy, shy, distant, and I blamed everyone besides myself for my lifestyle.
Now that I'm 20, it's unmistakable, the lifestyle I once had was my way of excusing myself from my responsibility and duty as a man.
I hope this helps us as people learn to love ourselves and by learning to love oneself, love for others will come naturally and our Alpha self will no longer be an idea but become us (YOU).

THE COMMANDMENTS FOR THE MODERN-DAY LIFESTYLE by TheSocialBum A.K.A The Priest

1. RESPECT creates boundaries for how people interact
2. There is a NO Tolerance Policy for DISRESPECT
3. CONFIDENCE is knowing without having to say “I know”
4. Being UN-CONFIDENT is having to prove something you already know
5. To have CONGRUENCE is to have the ability to not lie to yourself
6. Being IN-CONGRUENT can make trying to find yourself a lot harder
7. To NOT GIVE A FUCK WHAT PEOPLE THINK you should first pick up some congruence, respect, and confidence
8. HUMILITY is not having the need to brag
9. If Supply and Demand isn't involved DON'T EXPECT SOMETHING IN RETURN
10. Fill your heart with love because love can be used as self generating energy that is constant and never dies.

This may seem hippy-ish.
But I follow these guidelines and I've never stopped trying to become the best self I can be. (Which is a genuine good person whom the world cannot take advantage of.)
Perfect doesn't exist so give yourself a break.
It's not about the women.
It's about you.
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Being a pick up artist would seem trivial if you realized this whole time you were just trying to pick yourself up.

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"It's not about her, it's all about you"

-Priest A.K.A The Social Bum