Ive been seeing this girl for 9months now. For the past month and a half, she has been testing me hard, mainly bout the moving in together part. This has started a few arguments, mainly because I tell her moving into together is not what I want right now. Then our little arguments have been small but I have pointed out things she doesnt do, and women dont like criticism. Sex has been great the whole time, as often as I want if, BJs every now and then, except the past month hasnt been as much with all the disagreeing.

She has a roommate/close friend, that lives with her, also good looking. Im friendly, and talk to her in passing or in social events where everyone is together. About a week ago, standed at gf's place, she left early to run some earns, I was going to stay for a little bit to kill time before i needed to go somewhere. Her roommate saw that I was still there, she wanted to ask my opinion on stuff like she usually does. Went into the kitchen and got a drink, started talking bout alot of stuff. Then 30mins my gf, comes back cause she forgot something, looked really pissed cause I was still there talking to her roommate. Didnt say much to me the rest of the day, no texts or anything.

Then the next day and for the past week, everything has been great, better than great. I have gotten BJ's 5 of the last 7 days, sex 6 of the last 7 days, she has had this very positive mood all week long unlike the past month, and has paid for dinner every night this week.

Opinions? Im a little confused.

Simple. She's putting out because she felt threatened.

Clearly she is into you, wants more of you, moving in and all that. You fail to commit to her desires, sex drops off, interest drops off, etc. Then she sees you with someone else and is reminded that you don't belong to her, you're choosing to be with her, so she is working harder to maintain that. I see no problem here. In fact, she responded perfectly, no bitching in a jealous rage, just trying to show you you mean a lot to her and trying to please you.