Oh god...where to begin.
First off,a shit test is:
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SHIT TEST—noun: a question, demand, or seemingly hostile comment made by a woman intended to gauge whether a man is strong enough to be a worthy boyfriend or sexual partner. If he takes the question, demand, or comment at face value, he fails and generally loses the opportunity to move forward in his interaction with her. Examples include telling him he is too young or old for her, or asking him to perform an unnecessary favor
She is a virgin. She is seeking comfort and validation as for every virgin out there (man or woman) sexuality is a new scary experience.Naturally , everyone prefers going through these intimidating experiences with
someone they trust.
So you see,being a virgin she's not testing to see if you're a needy idiot that would say just about anything to get in her pants. Rather , she's afraid that her incapability of offering you sexual pleasures will push you towards finding them with someone else. But in order for her to be able to offer you these things , she must know that she can trust you. She wants you to be with her because you genuinely like her , not because you'll eventually have sex with her. She has no clue how important / fun / pleasuring sex is for a relationship. All she sees for the moment are a stream of emotions.
Translation to what she said: "If I can't yet offer you what you want , do you love me enough to wait and not betray me ?"
Translation to what she heard you say:"Yeah well, I might but then again ,who knows ?You're pretty much on the clock."
Also,I view cheating as lack of both integrity and character when in a LTR.
Do you understand what I'm saying ?
Your ambiguous answer didn't help your cause.
CHAT
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