Hey,

I could really use some advice.

I have a relationship with this awesome girl.
I might add that it is long distance (for now). But we will soon be together again soon.

I am her first boyfriend, and she is extremely good looking but wasn't really into the whole 'boyfriend thing' until she met me. She is extremely chill, relaxed, and there is no drama. I have been told she is an HB9 but other friends and that I am lucky to have her.

Lately with her, I have been a bit too clingy and I have been mentioning the future a lot (because I want her in it). Up until this point we have been 50 50 effort into the relationship, and it has been great, but I have just been talking more about my feelings and emotions and showing that she can affect me. I have just been realizing how great she is, and actually the thought of loosing her scares me.

We talk everyday through SPAM, every single day on the phone (sometimes it gets a bit repetitive and I say the same things). There hasn't really been a day when we haven't talked. How can I excite our relationship up?

I was wondering if you think it is best for 1 day to back off and ignore her texts and see what happens? Or would that just be stupid and cause problems?

What would this do if I do this all,

Thanks

Just STOP doing THAT!

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NC is not a one day thing. You are playing games and it will show. You need to calm down and take a breath. I would go NC for at least a month so you can work on yourself and your insecurity. If she gives up then she gives up but you'll be better equipped for the next girl.