I have been doing some thinking and trying to draw some conclusions based on experience. At least for me, pickup hasn't actually served me well as far as long term relationships or any relationships go for that matter. Is trying to seduce and sexually escalate quickly compatible with a relationship frame of mind? It seems like things develop much more slowly for people who are in relationships, meaning that sex does not come quickly. I met a girl at a night venue, things got heated quickly, we tried to date, but she never really developed feelings for me. If, on the other hand, sex came later, I feel that things would have worked out better. I'm good at getting ONS, but not true relationships. What do you guys think?

PUA works for relationships too, it's just that it's more slow-paced and you use less elements of it. If you want a true relationship you can't really quickly sexually escalate imo.

Things do tend to develop a little slower in relationships because people tend to be more cautious and also to 'enjoy' and focus on the 'emotional' implications of a relationship compared to the pure physical extazy of a ONS.
Physical attraction can spike up immensely in a short period of time , hence the success of a ONS.However it's a very volatile subject and it can drop equally as quick.
In a relationship , the very foundation of it is build on the emotional connection between two people. In order for that connection to be initiated , a certain degree of compatibility is required.

In your case ,she didn't develop feelings because she probably didn't see a good match in you.You were not compatible.

So yeah , bottom line , in a relationship things start slower. However,when things really start to connect and feel natural,it will skyrocket.

In regards to a quick close , be it kc of fc , you can use PUA to fake your entire personality (which I would not recommend).In a relationship however , you have to integrate PUA in a way that it's compatible with who you are.You can't and I assume would not wanna be a long-term actor in you own life. So you can definitely use certain aspects PUA to both create and maintain that emotional bond.

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