Hey guys,

I'm dating this girl for about 3 months now. We are very much alike and it's going really good.
There's only 1 problem in our relationship: jealousy. Me and her are very jealous people and we are both aware of that.

I think she likes me to be jealous.. she thinks it gives her more power in our relationship or something (if you ask me).. some examples:
- She tells me about a (sms) conversation she had with a guy (who's in the army) with her saying she thinks men in uniform are hot and blablabla.. (WHY WOULD I WANNA KNOW ABOUT THAT?!?!). Everytime she tells something like that, she ends it with a positive note for me tho (like '...But I told him you are the only one I care about.')
- She loves to flirt a lil bit here and there, and she doesn't mind me knowing about it. (if I do that, she explodes)
- Her last boyfriend had a really big.. well you know.. and she sometimes finds it necessary to remind me of that. (here I know she's just trying to get reaction out of me, but I always laugh it away)
- When a guy tries to hit on her, she's always eager to tell me all about it. (sometimes I think she's just making it up tho)
- ...

Before I met her I was known for hitting on a lot of chicks and she knows I'm a desired male. Maybe she keeps trying to prove she's a desired female aswell.. I don't know..

I hope you guys can help me here. I want to know why she is doing this and I need some advice about how I should react to these things and how I can suppress those jealous feelings. I hate being jealous!!!


Thanks in advance,
Crea.

when she says something like this, ask her why. based on this stuff alone, i'd be done with her. she's either untrustworthy, or just enjoys making you feel bad. i sincerely got angry just reading your post, and i don't even know her. the only possible redemption for her here is if in fact she feels like she needs to prove to you that she's of high value, and she's just going about this in a terrible manner.

it sounds like she does this all the time and in a number of ways, which means it is who she is. which means, she's messed up.

I'd tell her to go back to her ex then or piss off and go be with army boy.

Oh God, be prepared for some headaches whilst dating this girl, she will bring out your insecurities, I had this with my last girl. I was fine at first but eventually the constant jealousy games wore me down until I was completely beta, like, I only recently got my cock and balls back since going no contact.

Do you really wanna be seriously committed to a girl who does this kind of thing?

What the fuck man ? ). Fine , remind her how huge the tits of your ex was.

You're on your way
to having an extremely
unhealthy relationship.

With a girl like that things will never be fun. If you ask me she's making most of these things up to prove to you that even though supposedly guys hit on her / her ex has a huge cox / whatever other random nonsense , she's still with you. Which is kinda stupid because many reasons.

It's like saying that you're so lucky because the princess of the kingdom has chosen you , random peasant. Praise her everyday and be her slave.

Really,who wants that ?

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Sounds like a bad relationship. Put it in her butt. While having anal tell her that not even her ass is tight enough for you. Tell her that her ex with the big cock must of torn it up good and that the Navy dude can have your sloppy seconds. Since she wants to make your jealous, tell her that you're only interested in an open relationship. It will help both of you get over your jealousy issues. Fuck some whores, some polyamorous women, some swingers and you'll stop being so jealous about your women.

Every bad behaviour in order to be removed needs to be IGNORED. So you just ignore her bullshit, don't even change your face expression when she does it, if she sees it's not effecting you she will eventually quit if she is a normal human being.

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