Ill give some cliffs because its a long story,

This happened 1 year ago

-Me and my GF were planning a vacation together cause it seemed fun to go with each other
-All of sudden my GF tells me "Im prob going on vacation to ibiza with my friends"
-I said it was disrespectful towards me to blow me off like that
-We got into an argument and she didn't go to ibiza (She wasn't' even allowed from her parents)
-I didn't go on vacation with my friends because i wanted to go with her
-Her parents didn't allow her to go on vacation at all so i never went on vacation that summer


This is happening NOW:

-Me and my friends were discussing about going on vacation again, this time i had enough money to go with my friends AND with my girlfriend so i thought everything was cool
-I wanted to tell my girlfriend about this plan but it all was so far away so i figured id tell her next time i would see her
-My friends went to a vacation booking agency and they got a special offer and we had to decide in 2 days, when i heard this i immediately told my girlfriend about this
-When i told her i noticed a immediate change in her behaviour (this was on text) she got all annoyed that i was going on vacation with friends and i asked her if she was allowed to go on vacation this year

She replied "I dont know but if im allowed im going with friends"
Me: "Okay good to know"
She: "Yea you are also going with friends so why wouldn't i?"
(note: I told her that i wanted to go on vacation twice, once with friends and once with her"

-I told her that she was mad because she is insecure about me going on vacation with friends and possibly cheating on her (She is very insecure and told me this many times) and that she should take it easy and that we can talk about it and i can comfort her about it, she ignored me for a couple hours after this.

-Then in the night at 4am she basically said we weren't a "thing" anymore and that the relationship was over, i told her that she was angered and that i would speak to her next morning to let her cooldown

-The next morning (couple hours ago) i asked her if she was cooled off a little bit, she replied "yes"
-I asked her if she still stood by her decision to break up and she said "unforunately, yes" i asked "Why?"

Her Response:

"My parents didnt approve of me staying with you but i still did because i loved you very much and i thought you did too but i guess that was a big mistake. I wanted to go on vacation with you and already asked my parents but thats not needed anymore now. And then you tell me "im going away with friends!" Well thanks for discussing it with me first. I can't go on vacation with friends because ill get hit on by other guys and you had a issue with that, and you only think about yourself and you just go! Well go on and enjoy"

I told her that i would meet her in person tomorrow, she said there was nothing to talk about, i insisted that i should see her and we probably wil meet up.

Btw she also told me: "When we meet up, don't think it will change my decision, im sticking with it. "

Now i ask of you friends, what is the correct decision/course to make/take ?

PS: Sorry for bad grammar i typed this in a rush.

Thanks in advance

Who is wearing the testicals today? YOU or HER?

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Ok aparently you care for her. However she's very insecure and doesn't trust you. She's also very possesive.

You should point out to her that's she's being very irrational and so insecure to the point that she's willing to throw away your entire relationship on her personal issues.
Whats that all about ? so now even if she's allowed she will on purpose go with anyone but you ?
I mean , you invited her to come with you and that's her answer ? That's just so wrong on so many different levels.

My advice is that you should just go on your vacation and enjoy yourself. From my experience , those kind of girls always fuck with your mind like this. They'll always get butthurt over something thats actually incredibly stupid and they'll escalate it to the point of "i wanna brake up".They crave attention,they want to be the center of your world. And instead of earning that place in your life they try to take it by force with ultimatums and degenerate behavior.

All in all ,it's just not healthy to have such people in your life. Feel free to explain all this to her. If she understands and cools down than good for you. Otherwise just find yourself a normal person.

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I agree with the above posters, take your balls and tell her what you think, and she must accept wether she likes it or not, or else she can stick with her decision and miss out on an awesome guy(were all awesome, never forget).

Btw look at what this chick did to you, you didn't go on vacation last year, and now she's trying to ruin it again, wtf??

For me vacation is the most important thing in a year, because thats sooooo much fun, I have to go each year, if a girl stood in my way, I would explain to her how important it is to me and she should be supportive, if not, bye bye.

I just talked to her about the time & location for tomorrow where we gonna talk and she told me she was going to be brought home from school, then has to go to the store and then back home again and then we can talk, i asked her who was going to give her a ride and she said it was some guy from school wich she never told me about? I never heard his name before, she said he had a girlfriend and i was like ok...? So she is going to be brought home by this guy, then he brings her to the mall, then back home, seems a bit suspicious?

I called her out on this and she said "who's the insecure one here?" lol. She then said "If it goes like this we dont have to talk tomorrow" and i told her "Sure, whatever you want?" and she replied:

"I wanted to make clear that i have nothing with this guy or whatever, he is just a friend and he has a girlfriend. You meant much to me but those arguments i can't handle them anymore so thats why im done with us. You only do what you want and you don't think about me well you can do that with your next girlfriend! "

NEXT!

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I would't waste a second longer on her and go get someone else, even just a fwb

She mentioned this guy to try get you to bite which you did, from now on just ignore her, it will drive her crazy and allow you to focus your own mind

I'm assuming you guys are pretty young still, so your gf's childishness is "normal"

However, there are a few details in your story that make this more than a simple insecure gf

You planned to go on vacation this year with her, but out of the blue you told her you were going with friends. You should have let her know sooner, and it has nothing to do with being pussy whipped, just that you promised her something first and if plans change you should be a man and let her know upfront.

She told you, "I can't go on vacation with friends because ill get hit on by other guys and you had a issue with that, and you only think about yourself and you just go!" Obviously you had an issue with her being hit on which is insecure itself.

Also, she said "My parents didnt approve of me staying with you but i still did because i loved you very much and i thought you did too but i guess that was a big mistake". Why didnt her parents approve? In most instances it's because you have a history of abuse, arguments or sometimes social status. Since you have money for vacation, I'm assuming it's you're not the out of work bf, so you must have dont bad shit in the relationship. Also, "my parents didnt approve of me staying with you," is different from "my parents didnt approve of me being with you" Sounds like the relationship has been rocky and plagued with trouble.

A girl acting like this may sound at first like crazy gf syndrome, but after reading everything, sounds more like she's fed up and gone cold from being hurt.

So, combined with the fact that you promised her something, let her know your plans changed until later, you were insecure about her going on vacation, the parents dont approve of the relationship, and she's gone to acting cold, it sounds like you are the bigger problem. Don't stay with this girl, but not because of HER shit, but because I doubt you have been a good bf if you're honest. Just being honest from my understanding