My girlfriends best friend is a pain in the a**. They've been friends since elementary school, so they are tight. First of all her friend has no similarities with my girlfriend at all. I dislike her personality, but that I can deal with.

The problem is that she is psychotic, and all the time claims that their relationship is "better" than ours and that my gf is actually her "property". She has several times said straight out that she dislikes that my gf and I are spending so much time together. And if we are on the phone while she is there she just can't shut up. It often ends with my gf telling me that we should talk later because this control freak is so disturbing.

She has a couple of other friends that I think are a bad influence on her as well, but they like me and don't give me a head ache.

So far my gf is handling it quite well and I know that she loves me. She is always going home when the "bad influence" is going to after parties to get with random old guys. But I'm worried about how long she can stay the sweet, nice girl I know if she continues to hang out with these girls…

And how do I deal with her best friend?

If they've been friends since elementary and she's still the sweet nice girl , do you really think that will change now ?

Best way to deal with an enemy is to become their friend. I had a similar problem with my girl some time ago. That's what I did. I became her best friend's friend , but I always told my girl that one day her so called "bff" will backstab / fuck her up big time.

Anyway , at one point I started gaming her best friend. I managed to get far enough with her so that she tried to kiss me. I rejected her and told my girl about her 'best friend's' behavior. Obviously that was the end of that.In a way , I felt kinda bad about 'breaking' them , but in the end ,if she went as far as trying to kiss her bff's boyfriend , she wasn't much of a bff after all ,was she ?

In any case , I'm still with this girl today , and the 'bad influence' is long forgotten.

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