Hello, how do you get rid of the asd with your girlfriend? and methods or wayS?

Well, i am 23 years old and my girl friend is 22. (Just to remind you we are both Asians and she's a christian)

Its been about 3 month since we dated, and along that time we went through everything except the F-Close including the oral part (She's scared at doing mine).

The only thing that is possbile to her is doing it with the hand.

Until now, we went to a motel 3~4 times, traveled once.

What is the ideal way to brake her asd?
She says that she is not gonna approve actual sex until she's married, but as we all know that's probably part of asd even if she believes that in her mind.

I am even considering subliminal messaging, or any method that can possibly resolute this situation.

Please help me out i am going through hell. damn it lol

Loads of foreplay, be dominant and agressive, make her horny as fuck! If this doesn't work then don't waste time with her, go pimping and fuck other girls, there is loads of holes waiting to get fucked so don't stick with one.