I'm freshly getting back into the community because I recently broke up with my ex. I learned a lot in that relationship and I've decided in the future that I'd like to have a relationship with a lot more freedom than normal. I wanna find out if there's a way to convey "swinger" values in a way that's attractive and doesn't come off sleazy. I try to tell people how I feel about love, sex and relationships and they don't respond well. It breaks rapport in most cases, is there anyway around this? I recently read "Sex at Dawn" and after my time in the community I have zero interest in monogamy or encouraging women to be "ladies" its garbage there's no such thing, never has been. But as you can tell that's not an attractive perspective, it's legitimate but not seductive, I need some help conveying this in a good way.

It's all about sub-communicating that you are seeing multiple people and are not looking for a monogamous relationship. This means following the FB rules and telling entertaining stories that involve dating other people, swinging, kinky sex, etc. Girls start out as FB's and promote themselves by spending time with you and not attempting to change you.

-Wolf

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Threesomes. Ask if they've ever been in one. Tell them you have and it was awesome and you are definitely down for it again if the situation is right. Besides, you don't really want some other dude to be fucking your girl, so the swingers thing isn't really the best route. Also, it's good to find out how freaky your girl is and if she has lesbionic tendencies. The easiest way to fuck another girl in addition to your own is to have your girl right in front of you spreading the other girl's butt cheeks open while you fuck her. That way you don't have to worry about sneaking around behind your girl's back or trying to find some other couple who shares the same interests in sex that you do.

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