Hi guys, I recently met a chick through a friend of mine who is finalizing her divorce..we met briefly in person, exchanged numbers and have talked on the phone twice......I am setting up a get together with friends and invited her...she was all excited about it...I also told her that we should get together, just her and I...I can tell she is into me and she said she would love to get together, but also said, just so you know, I am not ready for a relationship because my heart isnt ready, blah blah...I said cool, i respect that, let's get together anyway...she agreed...she is obviously in a volatile state of mind in terms of relationships...

You guys know how I should play this card?...do i give her space or treat it as she never mentioned anything and just go with the flow?...run game on her?...back off?

She has a huge neon sign which says "It's not over yet", how can't you see it?

She might date you for a while, you might even have sex, but she will hate your guts for that later.
Of course if you'll play your cards right she'll get over it and your relationship will be pretty solid afterwards, if she'll think of you as better than her ex and any other potential rivals.

Freshly broken up girls are a big nono when you're looking for a serious relationship, it will work out only if you're an asshole who's only looking for easy sex (which will most likely be TERRIBLE because she can't connect with you on an emotional level).

Thank you for the response Xeydo...I dont think I understood exactly what u meant by saying "Of course if you'll play your cards right she'll get over it and your relationship will be pretty solid afterwards". Are u saying to give her space and then move in later? If so, you know that never works because by the time that comes, she's already with someone else.

This is a sticky one. She's really confused right now and can barely handle her own emotions, by adding yourself to her life you make it even harder for her to decide what she should do.

Ideally, I'd move on to an other girl because being a rebound isn't pleasant and at the end you're the one she hates for "taking advantage" of her. Girls are dumb.

If you're really interested in her, take in mind she's pretty unstable at the moment and you're gonna go through a rough road. Be your strong self and continue gaming, if she'll get over it, you win. If she won't - then who the hell needs her, you still win.