So I meet this girl a month ago, she's good looking, funny, social and very open. We arranged a night out with one of her friends once and it went pretty well, after we dropped her friend off we sat in the car, talked and kissed afterwards, I invited her to my place and we kissed there, she said I want to take it slow I replied don't worry I understand. She repeated it again in the morning when we were making it. We hung out a couple of times after that time, still talking and all. I know she's attracted since she told me and I told her the same. Although we never set things straight.

What I was wondering was..

What does she mean by take it slow? Is she not ready, its too fast ( It is and I know it )?

Also should I set things straight with her now or later??

Because when we're around people we're close to each other but don't touch. Alone, crazy make outs.

(This is all for relationships, not getting laid and dip)
Please answer and don't just view and change, thanks

This is an easy one. The girl's comment is just LMR (last-minute resistance). She's also probably a bit afraid that you'll think she's slutty if she lets you sleep with her too quickly (girls are weird like that). Just ignore the comment.

-Wolf

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I take it as a slow subconscious SHIT TEST. These signs are often very subtle. I know how hard it is to recognize signs; sometimes many men feel that they should push the idea of an exclusive relationship, when you clearly not ready.

If you think about it for a second, how can a man be completely in love with a woman that he’s just met? And even if you dated her a few times, you hardly even know her.

She is testing the water, to see if your her ideal mental idea of a mating match.

Mirror her actions, don’t be too available – Don’t answer every call from her. If you are busy in the moment, she can wait. Show her that you have other things to do and other people to meet with. Yes, you can tell her that you are busy even if you’re not.

Even see other women, show her you have other options.

React to her moves – If she chooses to display public affection, return it. If she chooses not to don't. It will come. Or she just not be a publicly affectionate woman.

I see no reason to set anything "straight", just be the man every girl wants!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I think of those things but don't do them, its crazy. I'll keep that in mind thanks.