So I have been talking to this chick for a while, we have seen each other 4 times and all times we have had fun and ended up fucking. She says she has feelings for me that she has never felt for any guy and she has been with 16! guys already and she is 20.
We get along so extremely well its insane, though we had an argument about if we should keep seeing each other. I did tell her at one time that I want to stop seeing her, because she has a baby. Thats one reason I want to stop it.
I also feel so much more confident these days because i read a book called "The Cure", it focuses on the core of inner game stuff. I recommend it, if you want it, PM me, it is the best book I've read in the history of my life. So if we end it I can go out now and keep getting better at seducing women. Thats a plus.
So since we get along so well I can't decide if she is a keeper or not. We are going to see each other until the new year then possibly date but im not sure if it is worth the time and effort to do that when the perfect girl could be out there waiting and im not there because im with a chick who doesn't tick all the boxes on my list. Please give me some advice if you have been in this situation?! I do not lead on women.
I'm not sure if all that makes total sense but advice is much appreciated and thankyou for reading.
Your friend,
Dellsonic

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That 16+baby is a giant red cross for me.
Depends on how you want to live your life, do you want to flow and go as you please or do you want to settle?
Seeing what your age and mindset is I would clearly state that you are there for fun and that is it. If you notice feelings start to get up- avoid her a bit.

I want to flow and go as I please! yeww.
I will do all of that, thankyou for the advice!

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That is a lot of guys she has slept with! but let me ask you something? Is it about the number of guys and your ego, or is it about how you feel she views her self morally?

If its an ego thing then drop it, and forget about it. As long as she is faithful while you two are together then that's all that really matters.

On the other hand it also depends on what you want in a girl? perhaps she made some mistakes...or perhaps she just has low self esteem and is a bit of a head case lol

Take your time with this one! don't rush into anything serious until you know more about her. but I wouldn't dump her over something like that unless it leads to other problems in your relationship.

Just date her for a while and enjoy the sex (and wear a rubber!), then eventually you'll go the way of the other 16 and move on. Life isn't about one relationship. It's a seriesof relationships.

I can tell you right now that being a young man with a girl who has a young kid is no fun. She'll start pulling all that "My son comes first!" bullshit and convince you that your needs and wants always come last. Don't ever let a woman convince you of that. Your needs supercede hers and her childs at all times. Either she embraces that or you simply move on and find a girl who doesn't have some little deal breaker running around.

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Milfs are nice (well she's a MILF ) but... i have learn my lesson when it comes to chicks with children...

if it's easier for you, try to hook up first with another and let this one go.

and good luck

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Wow! Great advice gentlemen! I am stoked from everything yous have just told me!
She says she is a different girl now then she used to be, and I believe her.
She is the one trying to introduce the faithful rules already. She is keen, and I think I might just get some dating practice in But I will tell her that we can see other people aswell? Should I? Because SPAM she has like 4 "stalkers". She has had a bad past I guess, but she has changed.

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baby.... no gracias.