So I've been dating this girl for about 3 weeks. She's got a kid, and just came out of a relationship about a month ago (he is not the father). She is definitely interested in being more than friends (we were making out and all that), but not ready for a serious relationship (which I completely understand).

I'm not sure what to do, but I know what I'm not supposed to do.
1) don't be too clingy or needy
2) don't kino escalate too quickly (to show that I'm not just in it for the sex)

She's broken emotionally and don't want to use me as quick fix. I want to build her trust in me, while maintaining the romantic interest, without complicating things with needless sex. I'm confused as to how I'm supposed to treat her...

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"Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi

Don't ever be needy, just because she has had some "Negative experiences", doesn't mean change who you are!

You know how girls always fucking complain about how they want to meet a nice guy instead of the typical Asshole? Well you know why that shit happens? Because girls fucking love Assholes!

I am not saying be an asshole, I'm saying be the part of the asshole that women are attracted too.

Be confident and independent. If you start off from the mental place that you are an amazing guy, and that you don’t need a woman to validate you, then you are on the right track.

Don’t be too available – Don’t answer every call from her. If you are busy in the moment, she can wait. Show her that you have other things to do and other people to meet with. Yes, you can tell her that you are busy even if you’re not. But the better option is really to have hobbies and interesting things to do.


Many men would think this would be the proper way to treat a woman that in their mind is "Damaged goods".

The opposite would be true. there will be plenty of time to show her how compassionate you are, AFTER you show her what a competent lover you are!

Don't worry, it's Okay to make sexual advances,simply stated, most women who want to have sex with you will make it very easy for it to happen. On the other hand, if she doesn't want to have sex with you, she will make it very difficult for it to happen.

I hope this helps Bro

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

She's not ready for a serious relationship or jumping right into sex? Then I guess you'll just have to slow play her. I recommend mirroring her. If she says she doesn't want a serious relationship, you say me too. Even go as far as to tell her you'll be dating other women until you really get to know her.

And also actually date other women.

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