Hey guys.

Basically after any and all advice I can get about my situation...

Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago because we live too far away from eachother. It was a mutual break up and very civil.

We still text each other few times a week and yesterday she was asking me (in a round about way) if im seeing anyone. She also told me she misses me but I had to ask her (she can be a bit guarded and cold with her feelings since we broke up- when we were together I knew how much she loved me but now its not so obvious)

we have also made plans to meet up soon and go sight seeing in London for the weekend.

Anyway I dont know what to do in terms of texting her or cut her out?

What I want really is to game her and make her want me... I dont want her to get over me

Thanks in advance

Set boundries.. or she accepts a relationship or quit contact totally.
In between doesn't work if you allready tried that before.

Okay, monogamous long distance relationships suck.. and they usually don't work. If you want to maintain some kind of relationship with this girl, then don't push for exclusivity. Instead, enjoy each others' company when you are together and don't get too wrapped up in titles. If you have fun every time you hang out, then she will continue to want to hang out with you when you are around.

If you don't think you can handle a non-monogamous (FWB) relationship with this girl, then GET OUT NOW.

In the short term, texting sucks for anything except making plans. If you want to keep in touch with her, then call her every once in awhile (or SPAM).

-Wolf

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i agree with wolf. just treat her like shes your girlfriend when shes here and when shes not just do your own thing

Hot and cold. Bait her into wanting u with showing the short time passed changed u and made u the leader if there is to be a future relationship.