Hey!

I've been in a relationship for about 2 years almost and it's LDR for about half the year. We see eachother every other weekend and it's worked really well so far and we're only about 2 hours drive away. (she's at college).

I have a deep connection with this girl that I never have before (ive had a couple girlfriends before) and I think that's why we've worked so well. However recently she has had more work and been more stressed out.

I feel like we're both becoming less sexual and I know this is normal for people who have been going out for a while but usually we are very sexual, try lots of things etc and dont take sex too seriousily, just having fun with it. We used to dirty text all the time when we are apart, phone sex etc. Now that seems to have gone, she is also texting and phoning less. When I see her we always have sex or at least a BJ. Though the last time we saw eachother we both wern't that horny. She also mentioned this and if she goes a day without feeling horny she often gets worried lol!
I keep trying to be sexual on the phone etc she doesn't seem to be into it anymore. I still feel in control of the relationship though, she always tells me she loves me first stuff like that, however i feel a little less in control due to the decline of how much contact we're having now (we still speak pretty much every day even if its a text) . Tho on the other hand I know she's also got a lot on her plate.

So my question really is, do you think it's a loss of attraction or just a phase because she's got a lot of work to do at the moment and how should I handle this? Be a bit more distant?

Thanks!