Chris rock's standup comes to mind making this post
"I've had fellatio since I'm married, those shitty three licks and then 'Is it hard yet hurry and stick in in' but no 15-20 minute blowjobs like when I was single". -Chris rock

I need a BJ, I am a man and I am not going to apologize for it.

Basically I used to get them a lot and now its been 4months now. The sex is there but no new positions. When I got it I did compliment her and everything. Now she just like "I don't want too". I shower I keep the area clean, trimmed and welcoming prior to her arrival. Then she is like 'I don't like all the hints' and "I'll do it when I want too". How are we suppose to be with one woman if she don't fulfill our needs in bed. Then they complain about us looking elsewhere.

I need a BJ I can't give it up so early in my life I am only 27. Need help getting the BJ back. I am not even married yet.

Despite your utter lack of coherence with all them damn run-on sentences, I sympathize with your plight.

I think it's best to use positive reinforcement when it comes to blowjobs. When you're getting a blowjob, make her feel really good about it by showering her with sincere compliments and by bountifully expressing how great it makes you feel. It might be a little too late to start doing a lot of this with your current girlfriend if you don't already do it, but you can start adding on the compliments and expressions of pleasure little by little over time. This will make her enjoy giving you pleasure through BJs, especially if you inject some more passion into the relationship overall.