Hey guys!

After reading "the Game" in college i went through a two year transformation of building a high value lifestyle. Ive become pretty proficient at it and people really seem to like me.

Recently i started dating a girl (exclusively) that i like pretty well, we have an awesome time together, she moves within my frame and works really hard to keep me happy but i cant help but wonder what else is out there. Im 25 right now and ive had 3 one night stands and then alot of sex with my current girlfriend. So i havent slept with alot of girls, which is ok with me, Sex is awesome however, i really more enjoy the interaction with girls, teasing them, having a good time and building a high value lifestyle.

Knowing how the game works WILL I REGRET letting my best years go by and missed opportunities to meet and sleep with beautiful women? I cant stop thinking about it!

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"If I tell you I'm good, you would probably think I'm boasting. If I tell you I'm no good, you know I'm lying."-Bruce Lee

Honestly man a girl who you connect with and who you have strong chemistry with is hard to find! I broke up with my gf for a short time, it was mutual, I met lots of other women who were just as good looking, most of which wanted to sleep with me...but non of which had the chemistry my gf and I had. needless to say I end up getting back with my gf because we both realized what we had was something special.

Could both of us find other people? of course. Shes hot so of course she could, and I could go out on any night of the week and take a girl home or get a few numbers...but would it be worth it? No because honestly we are best friends! you will have guys that will say "fuck that! fuck as many girls as you can!" but its rare to find a cool chick who you can actually say you are best friends with! I have dated a lot of women!! A LOT! lol and I can honestly say my gf is the coolest chick I have met.

Now should you never go out? no! don't stop going out and meeting people or meeting women...always have a social life!

That my two cents...I guess it depends on how you view your gf? is she your best friend?

This is an interesting topic for this forum.

Seems like you're saying you're relatively happy, and getting your noodle wet pretty regularly with a hot chick you really dig. Not really a lot to regret about that. If you find yourself actually wanting to fuck other chicks, my advise to you is to tell your woman this. She might actually like the fact that you are that open and honest with her. Just make sure you give her the message that you aren't hell bent on chasing tail, but that you do wonder. Who knows, maybe it will lead to an opening of the relationship so you have nothing to regret. Maybe a 3some???

I can tell you this, if you're only 25, you have A LOT of years of good fucking ahead of you. So if you're happy with the status quo, I wouldn't lose any sleep over it. I'm 33, and the way I see it, I've still got a good 20 years of fucking to go. And I say that only because I can't imagine having wrinkly skin and old balls and good sex at the same time. But who knows.

It is natural for a man to desire many women, but it is the mature man who is able to control that desire. The boy-man is the one who thinks more women = more of a man, because ultimately to feel like a man is what he is really chasing.

I'll be 33 in a just a few months. I can tell you that a girl who you connect with on a both a mental and physical level is no easy thing to find. In fact, Cory Skyy says that is what every guy here is really looking for. Even the ones who claim they are perfectly happy single and sleeping with a lot of women. What they are really after is that one girl who they just have that connection with, but they are afraid.

You ask: "WILL I REGRET letting my best years go by and missed opportunities to meet and sleep with beautiful women?" But, you should be asking "Will I regret letting go of an amazing girl with whom I have this connection, in order to chase tail, and possibly spend the rest of my life never finding that same type of connection again?"

At 33, I don't regret not sleeping with more women. What I regret is not having more sex and pushing the sexual envelope more with the girls that I had relationships with. When a relationship ends, I think "damn, I never had a threesome with that girl," or "I wish I had done anal with that girl," or "I should have fucked that girl in the family bathroom at the movie theatre," or "I wish I had made that girl dress as a nun." Things like that. Those are my regrets.

Honestly, casual sex is good. Any kind of sex is good. But, sex with someone you have a deep intimate connection with is the best kind of sex there is. When you know each other inside and out, know each others spots, what drives one another crazy, trying new things with each other... no other sex tops that.

If you have that, then don't throw it away.

Also, I'd like to add: Do not make the mistake of thinking you are in your best years at 25. You really only become better with age as long as you continue to grow and learn and mature and keep moving forward.

I was in a serious long-term monogamous relationship once or twice. It's what made me realize that monogamy was flawed and it'd never make me completely satisfied in the long term. Rather than suppress my desire for multiple women, I now have strictly non-monogamous relationships. It's not for everyone, but it works exceptionally well for me. I'm extremely happy and so is my primary girlfriend (2+ years into the relationship).

I'm just writing this to let you know that you have more options than "being single" and "being monogamous".

-Wolf

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Ive pondered the exact same question for some time.

Im currently with hot chick, 1.5 yrs in. sex great, etc etc but i also want other girls.

im 27, fucked 9 girls in all i think. had many many more chances but was basically a big chode until a few years ago.

the way i see it, enjoy what you have right now. and like someone else sayd, make sure you get what you want out of it. i.e. if you want anal and shes not giving it to you, THEN you might start considering looking for someone else.

cuz at the end of the day, you will only be in your 20s for 5 more years, and personally i want to maybe start a family around low 30s so these are my "bachelor" years .

and you dont wana regret anything.

Most good looking girls (hb 8, 9 ,10) will start to want to settle down as they get into their later 20's, at 21 they are in party mode, but once they hit 23 mabey 24 they begin to look for a good alpha male who they can build a life with, after 25 women start to get nervous about being single! most attractive women will be in a serious relationship by the time they are 25 and will start thinking about marriage. By 30 if a girl is single she becomes down right desperate! and is willing to settle for just about any guy with a good job and a car lol

Why? because women know that good alpha males are hard to come by! On a given night there might be 10 out of 200 guys in the bar who are "marriage material" in women's eyes. I am not talking about "nice guys" I am talking about confident, fun, provider type males, the guys who women seem to flock to. So who do you think end up with these types of men? Well the good looking women typically end up with these guys and the other women are stuck with whats left over.

You rarely see an attractive girl in her mid to late 20's who is single.

I was in the bar last night, with my girlfriend and her friends....all the guy who were hanging out with us were single, standing in a corner. One of them went up and said to a girl "your beautiful" and she shut him down within seconds. I went up to the same group of girls and within 5 mins had one of them (the best looking one) asking for my number....of course I shut her down because i have a gf and I don't cheat, but I know that I could have taken her home if I wanted to.

What is my point? If you are a true alpha male, and you know you can have other women then being with your gf is now a choice not a prison sentence. Most guys take what they can get, they latch onto the first decent looking girl who likes them but when you know you can have any woman you want things change! So ask your self...do you really love your gf? are you with her because you want to be and it makes you happier then being single? or are you with her because you think you cant do better?

If you are not happy and you know you can get other women then leave...why stay in the relationship? If your afraid you might not find better then you need to work on your self! you need to work on your inner game!

I can tell you from experience that finding a compatible women who you have a connection with is not easy, finding another hot chick is very easy!! they are a dime a dozen!

Im in the same boat. prior to reconditioning myself i was a total AFC but now i really have a great life with great people around me. I just feel like i have put in so much hard work that i almost would be settling. The game is perpetual and the learning curve is endless but at some point you become the guy who's 39 and still slayin hoes! I really don't plan to get married any time in the next 10 years if ever but at some point you miss the boat and your the the guy that got all the girls but nobody worth a shit is still around.

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"If I tell you I'm good, you would probably think I'm boasting. If I tell you I'm no good, you know I'm lying."-Bruce Lee

Trust me, there will always be women who are worth a shit around. Divorce rates are too high, and there are still too many douchebag guys out there marrying and divorcing good women all too often. If anything, I'm of the opinion that the older you get, the MORE good ones there are available because women live and learn from their fuckups and shitty failed relationships too. Just be true to yourself and in doing so you'll be as honest and fair as you can be to everyone else. And you won't have any regrets.

I agree with this wholeheartedly. I use to live by the motto "The best pussy is strange pussy" but I know that the best and most fulfilling sex has always been with the women that I have been in LTR's with. When you know how to please each other and you have that intimate connection together.

There have been many times in my life where shortly after cumming I have said and 100% felt that that was the best sex I have ever had in my life. None of these times have ever been with some new girl. They have always been with a woman who I shared a deep, emotional connection with.

Women are emotional (and insecure) creatures and they are not going to give their best to a guy that they just met or are sleeping with for the first time. They are only going to give their best to someone that they totally trust and have a deep emotional connection with. Don't you want to be that guy?