Im going to be very thorough. Here's the deal. I've been in the game 2 and a half years and during that time only one girl has really stood out above all the others. She's beautiful with a nice personality and most importantly, keeps me interested.

We had been friends for years, separated for college, and reconnected as different people. We clicked and were attracted right away. We proceeded to have an amazing 9 months together during which I stopped seeing other girls (which is a big deal for me).

The break up is a long story. It was bad but necessary (and happened in Paris). For about a month she hadn't been keeping me interested and we had started fighting. It was mutual but very messy. (Anyway, afterward I visited family in Spain and sarged alone with great success for my rebounds.)

I found out a week after our break up she started "dating" another guy to try to make me jealous. I decided not to fall for it. She started acting more bitchy so I cut myself off from her completely for 4 months. Until recently.

I was in a pretty severe car crash and my sister made a big deal out of it on Facebook so no one would leave me alone. She contacted me and we hooked up a couple times.

We've been talking and hanging out and she has my interest again, I guess I just needed a break. She says "she's over me now" But I can tell she's lying. the problem is this girl is so stubborn and too used to my charm or tricks to seduce her. She's trying so hard to get over me and at the same time making me want her more and more.

I don't want to cut my losses because I'd never be able to live with myself. So far I've had minor success getting her to chase me. I'd like to know the best approach from here to keep her.

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value - effort = attraction
-Gambler

The fact that she's trying to get you to become more interested in her is indicative that she's not over you yet. At all. It doesn't matter if you think she's over your "charm and tricks". It will work regardless of whether she realizes what you're doing.

Her: "I'm completely over you"

Real-World: I'm not over you.

I would have tested that shit.

Be careful you don't just want her because you feel you can't have her. I did that.
And yes, she may try and say your charm won't work, but that's bullshit.

"You can punch a guy in the face in so many different ways. Some ways hurt more than others, but they all hurt. If you punch him the same way again and again, it's not going to stop hurting him."

Think of girls as 'punchable-guys-faces-with-no-ability-to-protect-themselves'

But ANYWAY, as I said be cautious. What if you get back together again, and it's good for a while but once again, you will inevitably lose interest? What then?

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Hazze