so i met this hb9 a month ago. we are in friend stage now and we get along well. she works as a bartender at a night club. i recently introduced her to my friends and one of them wants her number and keeps talking to her.

on top of that she has a lot of guys hitting on her at the club. i haven't asked her out yet but with all the competition i feel so low and like i dont have a chance. IT feels like im running out of time . im not the most good looking of guys and i only started PUA 3 months ago so my game isnt amazing.

we hang out a lot. is a month a good time to move in for the kill? how do i tell her i like her? i know these are afc questions but idk how much more straight froward to be

Im shorter than her and she mentioned she likes tall guys coz it makes her feel more feminine... :s

thanks guys

how exactly do you define "the kill"?

(do you want to fuck her or be her boyfriend?)

what do you mean "like her"?

(again, is this animal attraction or does she make your heart go aflutter?)

when she said she likes taller guys, that was either a shit test or her putting you into the friend zone.

also, if you are UNCONFIDENT about gaming an HB9 after three months into PUA, chances are that you simply are not ready or in the correct headspace yet.

btw, those first two questions of mine were not to be a smartass, it is important that you have actual clarity about what your goals are.

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First get out of the friendzone?
Otherwise it'll be an auto-fail.
I think with the description you give me you need a solid lifestyle before you can get this one to like/love you.

Don't put all your eggs in one basket. There are an abundance of beautiful women just like her around. In that regard, you really shouldn't give a fuck about making a move and screwing it up. Because ultimately, you have to act. Regardless if things don't pan out. You just act. Stop comparing yourself to other guys, you don't possess her. If you try to possess her, that possession owns you. Go fucking ask her out man.