The other day me and my gf were talking about a girl we both used to sleep with, I told her ¨If she´d still be hot, would you do a threesome?¨ and she said yes, then I asked, if she would really do a threesome with me and another girl (She had shown signs of interest doing a threesome before we dated, but now that Im her boyfriend its a little harder because, she doesnt want to see me with any girl) ... she said she´d do it, if we found a girl we both like .... BUT, I don´t think she´d like the idea of me fucking another girl, I mentioned that it would be hot while I fuck her (my girl) shed be kissing the other girl, without me actually doing anything to the other girl.

What do you guys think about this? To be honest Im a little curious, but then Ive also heard threesomes are not good in relationships, Ive seen her kiss other girls but this would be different..

Id do it, I dont mind not fucking other girl.. but the simple fact of having 2 girls in one bed is exciting enough.

Imo threesomes can work but their needs to be ground rules set by both parties. Most couples can't pull off a threesome without it causing problems down the road but some can....just depends on the relationship.

Three things to remember

Avoid anyone you guys know or might have contact with after...it avoids jealousy.

Have ground rules that you both have to stick to, and follow them.

Both of you have to be 100% into the threesome! neither of you can be on the fence going in! it has to be exciting and something you both share and look forward to! you can't have one person thinking "I am nt really sure about this....but it will make him happy so il do it" because that person will almost always regret it after the fact.

I am personally a believer that threesomes need to happen with FB/FWB or very early in a relationship.

I missed that window in my current LTR, and even though I have this perfect fantasy of banging my GF and her roommate, I know it's not gonna happen (GF and I talked about it.. and she was like not my roommate, maybe some other girl, but not sure.. to sum it up, she was probably tempted but not willing to go for it in real life).

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

dude

if you have even an ounce of insecurity in your personality

lose it

before doing the threesome

trust me

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Its not that I have doubts, and like TheSeagull said.. my gf said that she would´ve agreed 100% if we weren´t dating, now of course she´ll get jealous if I fuck another girl.
She is willing to do it, but the one ¨rule¨she would say is that I dont penetrate the other girl, we have talked about it, and I have even thought of positions. We have even chosen some candidates but when she talks to them, they bore us.

The one thing here is, would it be considered fair, to be with her and another girl, without me penetrating the other girl? Maybe she allows for blowjob, or kissing with her, but no penetration.

you either both ENJOY the other girl or you are getting a raw deal

giving her the "upper hand" by saying "hey baby you can fuck someone else, but i won't" is the pussy way out

she needs to know that you LOVE her as you are dropping your nut down the other chick's throat

what's so hard about that?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I think a threesome is fine, so long as you both get something out of it. If she's getting off and is into it too, then there is no problem.

If the threesome is about both of them pleasing you and all she gets out of it is knowing you got off and enjoyed it, then there likely needs to be reprocity, or could be trouble.

I say if you're both down with it, do it. You only live once. If you're not both down with it, then no can do.

I agree with the boys above. In your head you are thinking "well its fare that only she can touch the girl because she is a girl" but let me ask you something? If you walked in on your gf cheating on you with a girl would it be ok? would it change anything? I am going to guess no.

My point is that it doesn't matter the sex, if you are both having a threesome for enjoyment then you should both be able to touch and enjoy, and as long as their are basic ground rules then neither of you have anything to worry about.

Me personaly I know I could have a threesome, have sex with the other girl and never see her agian....I wouldn't love my gf any less, other guys might not be able to do this...I don't know.

Everything you ever wanted to know about threesomes, in 4 parts:

http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... somes-quot
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... -with-quot
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... ex-talk%29
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... tners-quot

Enjoy!

-Wolf

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