So i've in a relationship with a great girl for about 5 months now, and it's all going great. We get on really well, enjoy spending time together, and have good sex. Except that, the sex, well, it's gotten a little repetitive. At first it was great, but i've heard some of the guys mention a 'dead-fuck' in the forums. This is where a girl kinda just lies there and makes you do all the work.

This, in my opinion, is boring.

So i'm asking for help from all you guys on how me and my girlfriend can get more adventure in the bedroom. Making her cum is not a problem, though it is always clitoral, and it has become in the 'dead-fuck' position that it is most common.

Please help me give my girlfriend and me the best sex ever!

Thanks guys.

Had an ex like this, she just lay there, i totally know how boring that is.

You should read the book: "Sex God" which will be a great help for you and your sex life.

Good luck!

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Daniel Rose - Sex god method,
Nancy Friday - My secret garden,
and several books by David Shade are good reads.

Does she have any sexual fantasies? Do you give her clitoral orgasms while you are penetrating her (best done in doggie-style or while she is laying flat on her stomach). Do you stimulate her G-spot during foreplay?

-Wolf

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Is she sexually inhibited? Is she scared of something or feel that there is something shameful about sex?

Maybe she has fantasies that she doesnt dare to share with you. Have you talked to her about it?

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Frigidity can only be cured if YOU GO FIRST. Go ANIMAL on her. Learn to give her an orgasm while going down on her. Rlly learn, then when shes hot and heavy, go ahead and have intercourse.

Tell her what you want, lead, tell her what to do, women want you to lead not the other way around!

If you want her to fuck you tell her "get on top and fuck me!" she will get the idea lol in fact it will only turn her on more. If you want to try something new then tell her "we are going to try something new tonight, we are going to _____" Say it with confidence! and mean it! if you are nervous she will be nervous as well. She probably thinks that what she is doing is fine because you have never taken to lead and told her what to do.

Also spice things up, buy her some stocking and stocking and a corset, make her feel sexy and get her imagination going! talk dirty to her! for play is 80% of what women enjoy about sex! they like romance, they like playing out their fantasies, if you go right into sex that takes away most of the fun for them.

Another thing is that some women just will never be sexually "freaky" they will never feel comfortable with it or have high sex drives, every women is different.

Finally something to think about is she on birth control? This has a big impact on sex drive! birth control is estrogen and progesterone, when you increase these two things in the female body testosterone ( the "sex" hormone) drops and so will her sex drive and sexual desire.

She sounds like she is scared or something.

train her

she is submissive

quit waiting for her to suck your dick

make her suck your dick

then make her take it up the butt

and no, i'm not kidding

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Quite agree with Mack... Sounds like she is willing to give you the control. So... train her : sexual contact or intercourse in "interesting" places, fuck her mouth, her aXs, go into control, buy a few ropes

As it may seem very crude :
I met a lot of women who never show their inner sexual desires because they we afraid to look slutty. If you take control, they have a good excuse and can explore their own sexuality without feeling guilty about it.

women have a natural instinct. they want to be "taken".

think about it.

back in the cave-days, man approaches woman, moves in close, smells her, brushes up against her, offers her a piece of fruit, woman smiles, takes fruit, starts to eat it, man reaches over and grabs her puss, starts to finger-bang her, woman finishes fruit, man rolls her over and fucks her from behind, drops a massive nut in her belly.

nowadays, that would be rape, lol.

AND I AM NOT CONDONING THAT!!!

but women do want to be "taken".

don't fool yourself with all the liberal drivel and feminist bullshit.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

+1

Even though I am new to this, and it seems difficult for me the first times, but it works. I can assure this by having tried this technique just couple of times.

Unfortunately once i fucked it up. But i had a good lesson. I was trying to take her while she pretended that she did not want sex. I was trying to be dominant but in the end I gave up. I can be sure that she actually wants to be fucked when she has shy smile on her face and she is saying nooo please don't. That time she was not negative (get the fuck away from me), but she wasn't positive either (shy smiley etc). I just gave up, maybe she was not in the mood or sth - 'You dont want it, you don't get it (my cock)'

Afterwards though we were discussing some random sexual stuff, and I asked her if she wanted to be fucked like a slut that time i gave up. She was avoiding the answer, i understood she wanted to admit it but she was too shy. I asked her does it feel unpleasant (because of social stuff) to admit it? And she said yes. I told 'dont worry babe I will not tell anybody and its perfectly normal'. Than she hugged me harder and we did not talk about this again.

just my 2 cents