Ive been dating a girl for three months. Ive set boundaries to how i will be treated, i call her out when she's being unreasonable, I take time for myself, I always lead our interactions, and i have passed all her shit test! She treats me like gold. At times though i want to ring her neck! She says the most unreasonable things at times.

A few examples:

Example 1

Her: I really want to get in great shape. Can you help me come up with a workout plan.
Me: Sure, Ok you want to tone you arms up, they have some great machines at the gym that will work really well.
Her: I don't want to do machines they scare me!!
Me: Well they're really good because they guide your movements and i think they would be great for a beginner and insure good form. But if your not comfortable with it thats ok...You could do some cardio to become more lean and toned all over.
Her: Yeah i wouldn't mind getting on the treadmill but i don't want to run or overexert myself.
Me : Hmm well I really don't know what to tell you. A great body takes hard work and its not something that will come without some commitment.
Her: i think ill just eat less!

(Me frustrated as fuck but not letting her know)

Example 2
Her: I want to clean my wheels on my car
Me Ok Ill help you with that since you helped me with laundry.
Her: (after two clean wheels on her car) We can do the other two another day.
Me: We've only been doing this for 15 minutes lets finish it really quick.
Her Ugm Uhh mmmm...I dont want too. Ung I dont want to lets do it another day!
Me: ok you want to drive your car around with two shiny wheels and two covered in brake dust...its your car.

I really care for this girl, she's sexy, cute, and really smart, she actually got accepted to yale, but didn't go. She treats me really good she knows i wont put up with her bullshit! I get sex when i want it, or pretty much anything else i ask for, she even helps me with laundry sometimes.

She was raised an only child and her parents have showered her with attention, she has two very nice cars purchased by her parents, she tells me that no guy in her life will ever fill her parents shoes and give her enough attention. At times i want to set her on fire because of her sense of entitlement, unreasonableness, and general brattiness. I feel like i'm different because Im a leader and i get the results i want from her. We have a great time but she reminds me of a unicorn, she's beautiful, mysterious, and different but very unconventional and to tame her would require so much on my part.

Have yall dated any girls like this?

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"If I tell you I'm good, you would probably think I'm boasting. If I tell you I'm no good, you know I'm lying."-Bruce Lee

So Tony you dont think it was unreasonable that he did so much for her and got very little in return. When your married shouldn't both parties chip in and do their part? I agree that she lost interest in him because he wasnt the least bit spontaneous, he didn't have his own interest, hobbies and friends. and obviously he didnt know how to get the results that he was wanting but i mean he's going to work everyday, mowing the grass, and in exchange coming home to a dirty house, clutter everywhere, no dinner ever, and no sex unless he was really nice that day and made her feel special?

Is it strange that a girl wants a certain result but is unwilling to commit to it? Im the opposite if i want something i figure out a plan and execute the plan. It frustrates me when she ask for advice and then says...I think im just going to do it my way.

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"If I tell you I'm good, you would probably think I'm boasting. If I tell you I'm no good, you know I'm lying."-Bruce Lee

As a guy wouldn't that suck the life out of you?

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"If I tell you I'm good, you would probably think I'm boasting. If I tell you I'm no good, you know I'm lying."-Bruce Lee

nice guys don't get laid.
the hubby was probably the stereotypical AFC whose attitude was "wow I got such a hot wife that's amazing I can't believe my luck. I will now be her doormat since she is so good to be with me given how bad I suck"

you don't beg for sex, or ask for sex. you get sex. because both you and her want it. her more than you probably. the moment sex is a gift she gives you, you're doomed.

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)