Ok. So I have this new gf that I just met, 3 days ago. And she's a virgin, but I want to take her to my house and do sexual things with her. How should I go about doing that? Should I wait? Should I do it now and start by kissing and escalate? What should I do? Thanks guys.

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Good question and the answer is: actually not hard at all.

The key is that you have to be openminded. You should not force her into doing

anything, but just show her that those things are normal. Youre the kind of guy

that she can fuck and lick his asshole and you will not look at her differently after

that, call her a slut or talk to your friends about it. Its all ok.

This is not the time to act tough or very successful with women, you should be

genuine. The goal is to create a feeling like doing sexual stuff is completely

normal, healthy and she can relax.

You should deffinetley push things sexualy but never force her or try to convince

her! Egx: You can take out your cock and tell her: suck my cock. But if she

doesent want to you can just say ok and try the next time or later. Sexual talk is

also great, talk about your fetishes and fantasies. Be kinky, women love kinky

guys. The goal is to show her that sex is not a big thing, nothing more than

washing your teeth is. Look at Hank Moody in californication, he never makes sex

the big thing. Its also a good tip to replace word sex with pleasure: Girls love

pleasure! Dont awoid words like cock, sucking, licking, pussy, fucking and so on.

These are normal words, just like car, dog or lap top.

Just be genuine, show her that it is not a big deal by being relaxed, definetley

push thing sexually and show her youre one of the few guys that knows the trooth:

Women are kinky! Enjoy with her Have fun its all about that

I stopped reading there ... How can you call someone you just meet less then 72 hours ago your GF? Reminds me when one chick told me "she loved me" 4 days after we meet. I laughed and said "no you don't". Reality Check.

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Borna and Speedy are both right. Make it "normal" (because sex IS normal); what do you mean girlfriend?!

Personal Experience Story:

I had this girl I had met, virgin, catholic girl. I was watching a friend's house and invited her over to help walk the dog. After we took the dog for a walk, I think we ate dinner or something. Not important. What is important was that I filled up stuff until late in the evening. Maybe 11-12. But she had originally come over at 7.At 7, she hadn't been expecting anything sexual. By 11, she was primed. Just generic flirty stuff. I'm sure you got that down. Then we played something I created on the spot, but have used a couple times since: Strip Uno. Played it off like it was a fun, common thing to do, like strip poker. The rules were, one flirty thing per special card (kiss, etc.) and then you lost one piece of clothing at the end of the game.

Here's the thing: It's extremely non-threatening, because they're thing that as long as they play well, they can have you naked and won't have to take anything off. In my experience, it's 50/50. But it doesn't matter. Regardless, one of you is naked after maybe an hour or two of playing. It's like the frog in hot water thing. No matter how virgin-esque they are, girls are human beings who get horny.

Lesson:
Work it in slowly, keep the tension, create a non-threatening environment, in which they believe that nothing may happen, but that they are still excited about something possibly happening.

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make her drink honey, it will increase your chances.

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don't give her the title of "girlfriend" until she has given it up.

problem solved.

it's part of making her qualify herself to you.

she puts out, she gets your exclusive attention.

why?

because you are effing awesome.

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You can get a brand new gf with the help of pheromone perfume. Try using it and then see the effect , all beautiful and hot girls will start falling on you.

She's your girlfriend (there should be rapport already) so it shouldn't be too hard to sex her up. Just increase the sexual tension.

making a girl your "girlfriend" without having had sex with her is like buying the cow before even tasting the milk.

now, your bargaining chip (the "relationship" card) has been played.

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