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Well first of all, I wouldn't make a big deal out of the waiting thing unless she is making you wait like a half hour....its sucks but you have to realize that she is probably getting ready, trying to make her self look perfect for you. I would simply just show up later next time, say you will be there at 5:00 and show up at 5:30....if she says anything then you can tell her that she is usually late so you were giving her extra time.

another thing, you have been "dating" for 10 months???? you don't date for 10 months lol are you guys seeing other people? if not then she is your gf, and if so then shes a fuck budy in which case you owe her nothing! other then a good time in bed.

explain this 10 month thing to me? who's idea was it? it sounds like a female idea, a way for her to keep you around when she needs you, and still allow her self to date other guys when your not in the picture?

He said 2 months.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Not 10, 2 month. We besically are gf / bf without the title. It's cause her parents are a real ass when it comes to her dating so we didn't make it exclusive but we do everythin as we are.
I understand about the waiting but what about the other concerns?

Concerining number 3):

Are you talking about texts?

If so, you just have to not worry about that one. Girls love to keep a guy waiting.
DON'T reply super fasts to her texts, even when she's replying fast.
DO take time, 10-15 minutes maybe, whatever is reasonable. You're a busy guy right? You don't need to be always ready for her.

I used to be in the same position as you with my girlfriend and found that she got quicker when I got slower!

Hope it works out for you mate.

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the problem i see here is that you supposedly laid down the law by telling her you wont wait for her longer than 5 minutes, but this law was quickly erased and you are back waiting for her each time.

she knows this. you say you dont want her to think its ok but each and every single time you go back on your word and wait for her, she knows that its ok.

you going back on your word = having no backbone in her view.

she will think she can walk all over you and it wont matter because you have set a precedent of not following though on your word.

in other words, youre the bitch in the relationship. (no offense)

i suggest improving your own life and having more friends/outings so that you have less time caring about if shes gona flake on you or not.