Situation: A bit of an insecure girlfriend, lasting for longer as a year.

We had arranged a date. She wanted to have a party, i wanted to chill and see a movie.

She has school, but doesn't go much, i worked double shifts.

I send her a txt, we'll eat together, i go see a movie at home, and you do whatever you want.

I call her over to say that in person, she says thinks i act weird.

We get in a fight about the most unimportant things, i did that, and you did that, kind of crap fight.

I just left.

She calls me accusing, angry, acussing i only make things worse, and that she won't be happy when she sees me... That she has to txt first after a fight, while i went to bed alrdy, without letting her know something...
I say, 'have fun', more bullshit about that... silly silly fights... i just hang up

I can't bite into this crap can i?

I have the feeling of ignoring/dumping her... Should i?
Why does she bring me this random fights?
What can i do about them?


Thanks for reading!

Ignore it, unless it's something you honestly think you should talk about.

Try to make it a talk not an arguement. Tell her you don't want to argue about it.
Tell her that arguing over little things is not attractive.
If she keeps going ignore, don't validate/reward that behaviour.

If keeps happening after that dump her. Waste of life.

yea when a girl fights incessantly for no reason, its pretty retarded.

but be careful, seems you are falling into a trap, one I used to fall into alot.

something ticks you off, or something ticks her off, and a fight ensues. then, each word you say and each word she says becomes magnified and seems super stupid and u just start hating each other.

but if you keep escalating, she will follow.

if you calm down, she will follow.

so its up to you to handle situations properly.

Usually when a girl fights over stupid crap just to start a fight is just a way "freak" girls use so that you dump them, most probably because she's not into you, found another guy, or her ex came back to the screen.

That happens when you're too pushy, were you the one who hinted for a relationship? were you the one that showed more need to "meet up" than her?

if nothing from the above, and you are 100% sure she loves you - be calm as fuck.

don't fall for this trap, some girls use this for attention, they stir up drama so you can feed her more attention with your anger, if she gets used to this, you will be getting this A LOT, and trust me man, that's no fun.

Be like a damn mountain that no hurricane can affect, when she starts stupid drama, you calmly, and man i really have to repeat, caaaaaaalmly tell her you don't want to hear this because she's acting weird, and just go, tell her you're off to sleep, you're off to see a friend, or you're off to pat your dog, whatever, be calm man, until she learns that drama does not work with you, you give your good attention back.

and when you get your good attention up, and she learns how to discuss those little things without drama, you explain to here wholeheartedly about whatever misunderstanding there was.

But it's up to you.